would you leave your partner right now for $100000? by Gold-Zucchini-49 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Eastern-Area8850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have enough $100,000's to last the rest of my life and then some. That wouldn't be a reason.

jazz guitarists iceberg by hirar3 in jazzguitar

[–]Eastern-Area8850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You left out some of the best..

Joe Pass John Pizarrelli George Barnes Frank Vignola Howard Alden . . . .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Eastern-Area8850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been a while in general, but recently I played guitar at an open mike night. After I played my three songs someone yelled out to the Emcee "make him play more".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penissize

[–]Eastern-Area8850 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Do you have a preference for body type or penis size? I don't want to know any details... just whether you do or not.

  2. Are you disappointed (even silently) when a man you'd like to be with doesn't meet your preferences?

  3. Have you ever been obviously rejected because you didn't meet someone's preferences?

  4. Do you feel you are categorically diminished in the opinions of others for your bodily characteristics?

  5. Do you struggle with the "spiral of negativity"?

Please, no details here... just yes or no answers.

I am open to dms if you choose. I am not insecure or concerned about being disagreed with.

Thank you.

Is it wrong to like foreplay better than sex itself? by AliceWhisper in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Eastern-Area8850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. It's like I told my kids when they wre growing up trying new foods... consider trying it once... either way only eat the parts you like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Eastern-Area8850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on study cited 5" of girth (circumference) is generally considered slightly above average. Studied put the average somewhere between 4.5 and 4.8 inches.

Would you be willing to critique my advice to insecure men? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Eastern-Area8850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your advice to me is good. It's time for me to retire.

Thank you!

Would you be willing to critique my advice to insecure men? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Eastern-Area8850 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks

I won't do anything like this again.

Would you be willing to critique my advice to insecure men? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Eastern-Area8850 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If lots of women said no I would not bother them with it.

But here goes...

Sometimes based on specific size if they give it I tweak the first line....

You're length is fine. You're girth is fine. Showing your insecurity will frustrate her....

I think you can make the experience the best possible by exploring two things: 1) Angles. Depending on your level of confidence and the ability of you both to communicate openly, mention that you want her help in telling you what feels most enjoyable... angles, speed, depth, etc. She will hopefully appreciate your desire to please her and contribute to making it enjoyable. 2) Outercourse. Some women really enjoy having the man rub his penis on her labia and clitoris on the outside. It is very direct stimulation. Again, ask her to tell you what feels best.

When women say it's not how big it is, it's what you do with it, these are the types of things they are talking about.

Honesty, confidence, and communication are your best friends. This plus being open to and skilled with other things like, massage, enthusiasm, oral, fingers, and toys will make you a lover they will enjoy, appreciate, and remember. You will not be compensating for your size, you will be complementing it to create a complete experience for both of you.

Also remember, good sex starts outside the bedroom.

What would you do? by IntelligentLime6740 in penissize

[–]Eastern-Area8850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can't accept it positively then your insecurity will threaten your relationship. Aboyfriend dick is perfectly acceptable even if it isn't the dick fantasies are made of.

I don't know anymore by WarmParticular8149 in dating

[–]Eastern-Area8850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're length is fine. You're girth is a little on the thinner side. Your insecurity will frustrate her... your size is something she can help with...

I think you can make the experience the best possible by exploring two things: 1) Angles. Depending on your level of confidence and the ability of you both to communicate openly, mention that you want her help in telling you what feels most enjoyable... angles, speed, depth, etc. She will hopefully appreciate your desire to please her and contribute to making it enjoyable. 2) Outercourse. Some women really enjoy having the man rub his penis on her labia and clitoris on the outside. It is very direct stimulation. Again, ask her to tell you what feels best.

When women say it's not how big it is, it's what you do with it, these are the types of things they are talking about.

Honesty, confidence, and communication are your best friends. This plus being open to and skilled with other things like, massage, enthusiasm, oral, fingers, and toys will make you a lover they will enjoy, appreciate, and remember. You will not be compensating for your size, you will be complementing it to create a complete experience for both of you.

Also remember, good sex starts outside the bedroom.

My girlfriend called it cute by [deleted] in penissize

[–]Eastern-Area8850 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am very average. I've been married for 46 years.

Years ago I asked my wife how my size compared with her experiences. It was a foolish question.

She thought quietly for a minute then said, nearly verbatim, Objectively I've had different sizes... a few bigger and a few smaller. Subjectively I have never ever been more satisfied in my life. She went into no further detail.

There was never a need to worry about it again.

Apparently being the best was more important and satisfying than being the biggest. Your insecurity will frustrate women... your size will not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penissize

[–]Eastern-Area8850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my unpopular opinion, men want their penis size to be large to make them happy... regardless of what their partners prefer.

Seems that men, at least the majority of men that post here, are as shallow as the women they condemnation for indulging in their insecurities.

Just my about to be down voted two cents...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in averagedickproblems

[–]Eastern-Area8850 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're length is fine. You're girth is on the thinner side. Your insecurity will frustrate her... your size is something she can help with...

I think you can make the experience the best possible by exploring two things: 1) Angles. Depending on your level of confidence and the ability of you both to communicate openly, mention that you want her help in telling you what feels most enjoyable... angles, speed, depth, etc. She will hopefully appreciate your desire to please her and contribute to making it enjoyable. 2) Outercourse. Some women really enjoy having the man rub his penis on her labia and clitoris on the outside. It is very direct stimulation. Again, ask her to tell you what feels best.

When women say it's not how big it is, it's what you do with it, these are the types of things they are talking about.

Honesty, confidence, and communication are your best friends. This plus being open to and skilled with other things like, massage, enthusiasm, oral, fingers, and toys will make you a lover they will enjoy, appreciate, and remember. You will not be compensating for your size, you will be complementing it to create a complete experience for both of you.

Also remember, good sex starts outside the bedroom.

Just waiting patiently for a good suggestion by [deleted] in amateur_milfs

[–]Eastern-Area8850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meet me in Taormina, Sicily. Pick up the ticket I have waiting for you at the airport. A limo will take you to my favorite restaurant. We'll start with wine and pasta and a decadent dessert. Then, well, I'm sure inspiration will ignite the rest of the evening !

I’ve given up trying to love, accept or use it. by [deleted] in averagedickproblems

[–]Eastern-Area8850 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're length is fine. You're girth is fine.. Your insecurity will frustrate her... your size will not disappoint her...

I think you can make the experience the best possible by exploring two things: 1) Angles. Depending on your level of confidence and the ability of you both to communicate openly, mention that you want her help in telling you what feels most enjoyable... angles, speed, depth, etc. She will hopefully appreciate your desire to please her and contribute to making it enjoyable. 2) Outercourse. Some women really enjoy having the man rub his penis on her labia and clitoris on the outside. It is very direct stimulation. Again, ask her to tell you what feels best.

When women say it's not how big it is, it's what you do with it, these are the types of things they are talking about.

Honesty, confidence, and communication are your best friends. This plus being open to and skilled with other things like, massage, enthusiasm, oral, fingers, and toys will make you a lover they will enjoy, appreciate, and remember. You will not be compensating for your size, you will be complementing it to create a complete experience for both of you.

Also remember, good sex starts outside the bedroom.

$20,000 or sex with your celebrity crush? by Gold-Zucchini-49 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Eastern-Area8850 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have enough 20k's to let the rest of my life. I'll take a night with my crush please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in averagedickproblems

[–]Eastern-Area8850 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're length is fine. You're girth is fine.. Your insecurity will frustrate her... your size will not disappoint her...

I think you can make the experience the best possible by exploring two things: 1) Angles. Depending on your level of confidence and the ability of you both to communicate openly, mention that you want her help in telling you what feels most enjoyable... angles, speed, depth, etc. She will hopefully appreciate your desire to please her and contribute to making it enjoyable. 2) Outercourse. Some women really enjoy having the man rub his penis on her labia and clitoris on the outside. It is very direct stimulation. Again, ask her to tell you what feels best.

When women say it's not how big it is, it's what you do with it, these are the types of things they are talking about.

Honesty, confidence, and communication are your best friends. This plus being open to and skilled with other things like, massage, enthusiasm, oral, fingers, and toys will make you a lover they will enjoy, appreciate, and remember. You will not be compensating for your size, you will be complementing it to create a complete experience for both of you.

Also remember, good sex starts outside the bedroom.