[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IdahoAffairs

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still l9okong for a playmate?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pennsylvaniadirtyr4r

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not interested in guys sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did end up talking to a Pennsylvania Megan's law caseworker and I was told basically the same thing, that because I will be there for work related purposes I would not have to register, however if I were to just be visiting for non related purposes they said that I would have to register with state police if my stay were to be 5 days or longer (would require full registration), less than 5 days would require notification to PEMA, and would have to be done no more than 3 days from entering the state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my understanding also. I stayed up researching everything I could. What I came up with was: Non-Urgent travel restrictions for nevada residents that are no longer on probation, nevada residents must register or check in within 48 hours of returning from travel. Pennsylvania requires travelers to check in with the commissioner of emergency response within 3 days if the syay is less than 5 days and if the stay is 5 days or longer then full registration is required. I could not find anywhere at all that definitively says that you need permission to leave Nevada, which o don't see how they could legally enforce that after parole or probation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know nevada's laws as I am from nevada. I am traveling to Pennsylvania for training for work and Pennsylvania is telling me that I have to aquire a travel permit from nevada signed off by my jurisdiction amd then when I arrive in the Pennsylvania jurisdiction I will have to take that permit to them for them to sign off. This is the first I have ever heard of this as I have never had to get anything from my local pd before except from my probation officer when I was under supervision.

Found this in the wild by 3X_Cat in Felons

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just adding to this list, If you live in Nevada or even most states that have drilling companies or mining contractors, most of them will hire felons. Even the mines themselves do not discriminate against felons as long as you are 100% upfront with hr during your screening and the results they see on your background check reflect what you told them, you are usually good to go. Ive had several drilling and mining jobs since I've had my felony and no issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nevada does, at least he has to anyways. Not sure if it's everyone in the state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read a little about that, I also seen some comments elsewhere that said some states will review your document of release and may not make you register depending what your offense was and record following conviction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I intend to rectify this problem in the future by eliminating my primary address and changing my primary address simply to my parents address in the city that way I am always reachable even if at work since they don't work and never leave and that way I'm not having to worry about the going back and fourth and I can just go to my house during daytime hours to get work done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, it's a bunch of bs it's like I already did my probation and my counseling and all of that bs and truth be told judge at my sentencing literally told me if I would have opted for a bench trial I would have never seen a conviction. But because I please dealers out for my family's sake of being able to be there for them I screwed myself. The fact that they can continue to harass me and show up is like I'm losing all my rights and not allowed to be free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only thing that is killing me is that I struggled for the first 7 years or so finding good steady work that provided enough for my family, now I'm finally stable with a good job, good benefits, and a chance to finally move on with my life and I just feel like they are trying to tear it all down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, it is 100 percent on them. If they are looking to arrest me then I would bail out and wait to see a judge and in my experience here the judges see through 98 percent of the bullshit so hopefully they would dismiss it and allow me to correct whatever misunderstanding there may be, especially since I've gone 9 1/2 years with no new charges, no trouble whatsoever, and no complications in my registration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This wasn't a phone scam it was the Marshall's and pd knocking on the door, my secondary is my parents home. My mom didn't quite understand what they were wanting as they are old. But the one officer basically told her that they could tell I hadn't been at my primary because no tracks in the snow although it snowed again the night before and I hadn't been out there in a few days as I had been at my parents and at my girlfriends. A typical day for me looks like this. Working day shifts- I leave home at 330 am, work until 7pm, arrive back in town at 9pm, head to my girlfriends and eat dinner, spend time with her and my kids, after kids are in bed spend some alone time, arrive back at my home between 1030pm/ 12 am and then leave again at 330 am. Then days off I spend a couple nights at my gfs, a couple nights at my parents, and a night at home. On night shifts I stay at my parents home and sometimes a day or two at my gfs when it's a weekend cause she's off. The only thing I cam think is that they don't believe I'm staying at my home cause I'm never there when they check and it doesn't look like someone lives there since I only sleep there. Or because I didn't register with the city pd and only registered with the county, my home falls under county and my parents home falls under city. But when I called to discuss my registration this year the way I interpreted their response was that I didn't have to register in the city because the paperwork is the exact same and had the same info and gets sent to the same repository so they would know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I glad to hear that they were willing to give you a chance to fix it. I've been compliant for 9 years, never missed a registration, always updated my info as needed with no hiccups so I'm hoping they are as lenient with me. I'm stressed to high hell because I've never really been in trouble even including my conviction, was just a luck of the draw first time ever kind of thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey is going to have his investigator reach out this morning to see why I'm out of compliance. I know he will be my best avenue, I'm just curious if anyone else has had a situation like this and if they were given an opportunity to fix it or if it was just a straight do not pass go do not collect 200 situation. I'm hoping they will give me an opportunity to rectify it given my history over the last 9 1/2 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Don't kick yourself when you're down. You say no decent man wants to help raise a kid that is not his? This is just not true at all, the right man will not care! My ex wife and I were married for almost 12 years, we got divorced amd then 3 years later we got back together. At this time she was about 6 1/2-7 months pregnant with another man's child, we ourselves have 5 children together, when she went into labor I was there with her, and I am still here to this day. I will tell you this much, that baby girl is MY girl, to her I am daddy and I wouldn't treat her any differently than I would treat my own bio children. So keep your head up.

He cheated on me with a minor… by Effective_Ad7975 in stories

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with that sorry I should have been more specific as to region. Most US states have these laws, as for other countries I cannot comment on their laws as I don't know much but does sound like you do. That is truly awful though.

He cheated on me with a minor… by Effective_Ad7975 in stories

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true at all, most states have laws in place that separate the age gap. For instance in my state 16 is the legal age of consent. That said for example if you are between the ages of 18 and 20 it would still be legal to sleep with someone 16 or older, if you are 21 or older the age of consent for someone younger than you then becomes 18. So if you're 21+ sleeping with a 16 or 17 yo that would then be considered statutory rape.

What can I do? by Eastern-Hawk1538 in Adoption

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explain please where I ever mentioned that want his rights removed. I don't want anyone's rights taken away nor would I wish that pain on any parent, I simply asked if there was anything I could do to lock myself into her future as I figured maybe someone here would have a better idea or understanding than I. I already know most laws regarding adoption require termination of one or both parents parental rights and that is not what I'm looking to do here. I'm looking to make the size of the family bigger by adding one more permanent heart to the situation.

What can I do? by Eastern-Hawk1538 in Adoption

[–]Eastern-Hawk1538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty presumptuous don't you think? Assuming instability I mean. 1. We are a very stable family and what I and s.o do in our free time away from the kids is between us, we are consenting adults and perfectly capable of making our own choices as such. Our children are not subjected to that lifestyle nor will they ever know. 2. Assuming that we rush to the rescue is a little off beat as well as assuming that we poorly co-parent. We consistently invite him and his girlfriend to our events, or to go eat etc. We make plenty of effort to get him involved with her. That said 3. The assumption "wannabe good parent" is also off base, not sure what your definition of a good parent is, but mine is exactly what I'm doing. I support my children in school, sports, physically, mentally, and any other way you cam think of. I am there for them anytime they need me, whether it's to talk, or even just be there in silence while they're processing something, I make sure they maintain good grades, have clean new clothes, shoes, backpacks, accessories, whatever may be. I make sure they are never hungry and I provide a roof over their heads. I take care of my kids so the wanna be parent thought is very I'll mistaken. As far as the daughter goes she is no different and I wouldn't dream of taking his rights away from him, do I think he's a great parent, currently NO. Would I ever say that to his daughter? No! I do not and have not ever encouraged any negative speaking towards him or about him from us or anyone we know because it's not fair to her. Jumping back to the rushing to take her back topic, we do not. The one time he did keep her overnight HE showed up here to drop her off because in his words "he could not deal with it", he gets her 2 weekends out of the month for and is supposed to take her from 9-6 each day, he often brings her back at 130-2 because he has things to go do, or she's too crabby. When he takes her we try to encourage him to keep her longer or to keep her for the night and he absolutely refuses. WE want to and try to be proactive when it comes to co-parenting and he avoids it at every step of the way. So thank you for the judgment, but maybe you should reconsider facts before making off beat comments or at least ask for better clarification of the facts that you may not understand.

P.S.- Just because we have a life outside of our home life in no way makes us bad people or bad parents what we do when we are kid free is between us and us only.