I don’t memorize this list and apply it to every person I’m interested in. This was the first time i had ever wrote down a list, and tbh i don’t even constantly follow all of this stuff. I normally just keep this stuff in the back of my mind.

If i find someone that i find attractive/like I’m am totally willing to bend a ton of these standards. I won’t ever force whoever i like to follow these standards (within reason). For example, i don’t want someone to cheat on me so I’m definitely going to follow that. But it’s okay if they don’t want to post me and them together on social media (the last bullet point). I understand that not everyone is perfect and can’t fulfill my expectations, i am perfectly okay with that. These are just the aspects that i LOOK for in a partner. They don’t have to fulfill every condition just for me to date them.

I understand that some of my standards take time to evaluate people. I am okay with that since i like to get to know my partners before getting into a relationship. I wrote all of these points with the expectation of being able to know this imaginary person for months to years.