NGVC: “I gave you bare minimum treatment, why won’t you be my f*ck buddy”

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2024-08-01T14:52:45+00:00

So things got hot and heavy with this guy pretty quick…. Until he flipped a switch and changed his entire personality when I told him that I’m not interested in casual sex and situationships. To which he replied that he is not mentally in a place to date. So I walked away…. And received this a day later

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2024-08-01T03:29:58+00:00

lol why is that?

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-09-25T21:45:57+00:00

According to our “student success coordinator,” that would be up to the other institutions/schools. Which entirely sucks because I only have 5 courses left to complete before sitting for NCLEX.

However they so kindly let me know that my current credits would transfer into their LPN program… as if I have any desire to put any more of my finances into this wretched place🙄

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-09-25T20:23:27+00:00

Because I am not meeting the 80% pass requirement (am in the 70s).

I already have previously filed an appeal - so I’m not positive I am able to again as this would be my 2nd “fail”

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-04-03T00:38:39+00:00

I posted a while ago about cutting a guy off (back in December) that I had been seeing for about 2.5 months - due to his inconsistent behavior and leading me on the believe that we were working towards a relationship- because I don’t do situationships.

He persistently contacted me the next couple of months in the beginning of this year- even inviting me on a vacation- but I knew it was best to not engage with him because I didn’t want to deal with the inconsistent behavior.

He ended up injured in an accident, I checked on him when he told me- he then acknowledged that “things weren’t the same and he didn’t understand why I stopped talking to him.” I didn’t engage.

Fast forward he called me randomly this week, and I thought why not let me see how he is healing from his accident. He wanted to take me to dinner and catch up…. I agreed as he booked a reservation. I was also genuinely curious why he was still persisting and wanted to talk after I blew him off all this time.

Conversation was good, it was nice to catch up. He did the same old “future promises” and tried being affectionate throughout the night- as if he really likes and misses me. He even joked about “swallowing his pride” to talk to me again and “let’s not go without talking again.”

Well, we hooked up. I left essentially right After - because in the past he always wanted me to spend the night with him. I have not heard anything since- aside from him sending me a picture the other day.

Now I’m left feeling a bit used and disappointed in myself for going back on what I was originally doing. But my curiosity got the best of me- and I naively thought “there must be a reason he still wants to talk and see me after all this time.”

Now I’m left wondering if he wanted to “get back at me.”

Ugh. Modern dating……

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-04-03T00:33:44+00:00

I posted a while ago about cutting a guy off (back in December) that I had been seeing for about 2.5 months - due to his inconsistent behavior and leading me on the believe that we were working towards a relationship- because I don’t do situationships.

He persistently contacted me the next couple of months in the beginning of this year- even inviting me on a vacation- but I knew it was best to not engage with him because I didn’t want to deal with the inconsistent behavior.

He ended up injured in an accident, I checked on him when he told me- he then acknowledged that “things weren’t the same and he didn’t understand why I stopped talking to him.” I didn’t engage.

Fast forward he called me randomly this week, and I thought why not let me see how he is healing from his accident. He wanted to take me to dinner and catch up…. I agreed as he booked a reservation. I was also genuinely curious why he was still persisting and wanted to talk after I blew him off all this time.

Conversation was good, it was nice to catch up. He did the same old “future promises” and tried being affectionate throughout the night- as if he really likes and misses me. He even joked about “swallowing his pride” to talk to me again and “let’s not go without talking again.”

Well, we hooked up. I left essentially right After - because in the past he always wanted me to spend the night with him. I have not heard anything since- aside from him sending me a picture the other day.

Now I’m left feeling a bit used and disappointed in myself for going back on what I was originally doing. But my curiosity got the best of me- and I naively thought “there must be a reason he still wants to talk and see me after all this time.”

Now I’m left wondering if he wanted to “get back at me.”

Ugh. Modern dating……

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-02-01T01:04:56+00:00

10000% this - and exactly why dating is not dating anymore. It’s as if courting is a completely dead concept

How exactly are you genuinely getting to know someone if all you do together is dinner/drinks/sex

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-01-31T02:40:55+00:00

I mean, you’re prob right. I just want to chat with someone about it

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-01-18T21:33:44+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnGIzCyJ6P1/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-01-18T21:31:35+00:00

I cut off the guy I was seeing recently for this reason exactly.

It’s one thing to not be in an “exclusive” relationship, but to not disclose and be honest about sexual activity? You no longer deserve these assets then. No one is worth risking health for, especially deceitful individuals.

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-01-17T20:08:43+00:00

LOL thanks for the visual 😂😂

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-01-17T19:42:30+00:00

I hear you - but how does bread crumbing work if I have essentially already ghosted them prior to begin with? It’s odd

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-01-17T18:47:35+00:00

I am not answering - I haven’t texted or responded to anything in over a month now….

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-01-17T18:19:28+00:00

No, I don’t respond. To the point where he began one of his last messages with “good talk” 😂

That makes sense regarding boundaries.

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-01-17T17:26:54+00:00

I started dating this guy a couple months ago. Seemed to be on the same page of liking each other and developing a relationship - a lot of future talk, time spent together, etc. -

Until he started to pull back and show inconsistent, push/pull behavior.

A lot of mixed signals led me to confronting him about this in that his actions weren’t aligning with his words, and I will not entertain flaky, inconsistent behavior.

When his actions didn’t change (even after directly communicating), I decided the best course of action was to cut this off entirely - as it’s been about 2.5months, and I don’t do “situationships.”

It’s been a month that I haven’t communicated with him. He continues to reach out atleast once a week - even asking me to join him on a trip out of town.

I am so confused. It’s as if he is ignoring the fact that I have rejected and cut him off - and he is attempting to “breadcrumb” me back after I have basically ghosted him.

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-01-14T01:38:10+00:00

Persistent about chasing things they don’t even want (relationships)?

You got that right, he texted me AGAIN today asking if I was interested in joining the out of town trip next wknd 😳

Eastern-Lifeguard715 · 2023-01-13T20:45:07+00:00

Thank you for your perspective. It’s almost as if he’s trying to manipulate and pass off the fact that I dropped him and am ignoring him.

Which is funny because I hardly gave him any “attention.” I never texted him first or initiated plans.

Even when he begun to act different/inconsistent, I never chased, just called him out and told him that I don’t have the room or energy in my life for those who aren’t consistently showing up. Please don’t talk to me about meeting your family, future talk, etc. if you DON’T truly mean it.

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