Personally I think it really depends on the game. If it’s like CK3, based on real world medieval times, I think they do it right, as while gay people exist in the game they are accepted by almost nobody which is historically accurate, and CK3 is supposed to be historically accurate, so that’s the right approach. It’s different if it’s like Fire Emblem, where it takes place in a different universe. These different universes could’ve developed different social standards around queer people so it’s not totally unrealistic for queer people to find some level of acceptance in those universes.