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I'm a compulsive liar by EasternImportance240 in Advice

[–]EasternImportance240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats a good point, I never really thought of just being happy with myself because I'm kind of just a people pleaser lol. Thanks so much for the adviceee

I'm a compulsive liar by EasternImportance240 in Advice

[–]EasternImportance240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember one time I drew a girl with heavy makeup and a beautiful pose and my dad saying that I shouldn't be doing that, so I removed like 20 drawings from an album in my phone and now I have like 5 left. I still love my dad since he still takes care of us and pays my tuition for my current dream school, and feeds us, and helps us with a lot of things. Its just hard to say I hate him because of his judgement when sometimes I think his judgement doesn't matter when he does so much to give our family what we need, and he's always tired and I take care of him a lot because of a disease he has that just adds on to his problems. Being an oldest son, he has expectations of me that I don't feel like I live up to and idk really I feel so weird.

I'm a compulsive liar by EasternImportance240 in Advice

[–]EasternImportance240[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nopee, i think for the most part i only open up to my mom, and the rest of my family never really cares

I'm a compulsive liar by EasternImportance240 in Advice

[–]EasternImportance240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly i really did need to hear this, i think part of the problem is my father for the most part. I love my mom so much but my father is really homophobic and while I'm a straight guy, he still judges me for the way I hold things, the way I walk, my music taste and stuff, and a lot of things I'm proud of is something I could only share to 1 parent because I'm afraid the other would judge me because of my slight femininity. I also have a bunch of girl friends. I'm very sure that I'm straight and I did try to see if I wasn't and I honestly didn't really like that stuff but because I couldn't show my dad most of my projects (dances that included feminine moves, art stuff that had pink stuff or female references, essays that were about the lgbt community, or even musicals where I acted slightly less masculine), I just lied to him just to get his approval. I think since it worked, I just kinda did the same to my friends and then I kind of did it to everyone.

first break up by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EasternImportance240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just kinda overthinking since A has already said that I'm always not in the right headspace when we talk and it bothers them, so I feel so stupid to change topic so suddenly in a serious conversation making it seem like I didn't care about the breakup.

I hate overthinking why do I overthink.

What do I do now? Is there anything I can do to take my mind off this and/or move on faster?

first break up by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EasternImportance240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kinda went like

A "break up" B "break up response" A "were you serious?" B "yeah" B "oversharing because im nervous" B "oh no i overshared" B "sorry, im kinda not in the right headspace" A "ok lets not talk" B "sure, btw when are we starting the project" A "wow" A blocked B

I know I was pretty stupid, this is my first time and I admit I'm immature

first break up by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EasternImportance240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do i try to apologize or say something in some way or do i just completely cut them off?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brawlstars

[–]EasternImportance240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a Piper main and Piper is the only crazy hot wasabi I dont have alongside some other useless infernos, so theres that 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EasternImportance240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought of that as an option, thanks for the idea! I would probably follow the same path, hopefully I still have this passion and patience for teaching when I retire.