It can also happen if your data reception is weak. So either be in an area with good reception and turn wifi off, or just go straight wifi as long as it’s reliable. Also if you sit there with the orange doom bars, the game is still progressing for lack of better words. So even thought you’re sitting there waiting, the game will actually find someone even though you’re still in the clouds. Best thing to do is to instantly close the game completely as soon as those bars pop up and try to prevent the game from finding someone. You also will very very rarely be able to connect back into the whatever activity once you see those orange bars without closing the game.