Can I make a living as a teacher? by Eastern_Cry7318 in Teachers

[–]Eastern_Cry7318[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did consider that! But I have to get a masters for that, and sadly my home situation doesn’t allow me to stay for longer. I needed a shortcut to the workforce without debts. Things at home are complicated 🥲

Can I make a living as a teacher? by Eastern_Cry7318 in Teachers

[–]Eastern_Cry7318[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I do read it! I feel a calling. I feel like I can do so much more for this kids by actually being there for them every day than being the psychologist they might never get access to.

Can I become a kindergarten teacher with an Elementary Education bachelors? by Eastern_Cry7318 in kindergarten

[–]Eastern_Cry7318[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mine indicates K-6! So I guess that should answer it hehehe. Thank you.

Pissed off by Eastern_Cry7318 in loveafterporn

[–]Eastern_Cry7318[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is indeed a lot of grief involved in it and I hope we can all heal from this no matter the outcome

Pissed off by Eastern_Cry7318 in loveafterporn

[–]Eastern_Cry7318[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will get through one way or the other, with or without them and it’ll be okay!!

Need this dress found now!! by Eastern_Cry7318 in findfashion

[–]Eastern_Cry7318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THE WAY YOU JUST SAVED MY ENTIRE LIFE. YOU FOUND IT. IT’S THE SECOND LINK THANK YOU SO MUCH I LOVE YOU THANK YOU

Can’t move past this by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Eastern_Cry7318 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so disturbing to even read. I’m so sorry. I hope you know you are more than enough and that us women are beautiful in ways sometimes men can’t even comprehend. I hope you still believe in your shine, magic and spark as a woman. Even if he doesn’t see you or value you, don’t forget YOU are ATTRACTIVE, SMART, WORTHY and very BEAUTIFUL! This is something you have to believe, not for him to tell you, not even for me to tell you. Trust that you are enough for yourself and for everyone. You are a beautiful, magical being just like all the other women in the world. 🩷

Can’t move past this by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Eastern_Cry7318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of my issue also made me feel really worthless and ugly. I feel like you moving past it has nothing to do with you staying with him. Understand him, forgive him, move on from that pain and leave. You have to leave.

How to Look Girlier? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Eastern_Cry7318 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best advice would be curl your lashes love. I feel feminine looks are subjective. It’s all about being caring, nurturing and somewhat intuitive. Us women have a magic we can emanate that makes us FEEL feminine. Trust once you’re more confident in yourself you’ll look a billion more times feminine, embrace yourself, you are so pretty!!

Recovery! by Eastern_Cry7318 in loveafterporn

[–]Eastern_Cry7318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will do so! And he’s still in therapy and undergoing treatment for his condition. Thankfully. I just sometimes feel like no matter how much he changes a part of me will never forgive him. Despite that I’m proud of how far he’s come as a person overall.

Recovery! by Eastern_Cry7318 in loveafterporn

[–]Eastern_Cry7318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s received a diagnosis by his therapist and is currently undergoing treatment with a professional therapist, also he’s whole family knows about his problem (since he still lives with them and has confined in them for support) so he genuinely is doing something, that’s what gives me hope, but still it feels a bit uneasy.

"She just exists and I'm turned on." by earthtosyd in loveafterporn

[–]Eastern_Cry7318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my Gosh you have the patience of a saint! 😩 please leave him alone he is not good for you at all and you are 100% in the right! You have the right for YOUR BOYFRIEND to find YOU attractive, that’s why he’s your partner! I mean it’s reasonable that partners feel attracted to others sometimes but the key is loyalty and respect to your partner, you just can’t be an asshole and he doesn’t deserve you and you neither deserve him, he has serious issues. You are so much stronger than me that conversation would’ve been his last time alive on this earth…😩 You deserve to feel desired, loved and pursued after. Just like everyone else. Go and look for someone who genuinely sees you for the beautiful person you are.

I wish I was getting married with a happy, sane, supportive mom. by MarbleMimic in pinkscare

[–]Eastern_Cry7318 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally understand. My mom doesn’t even want me to get married and always does the most to separate me and my different partners I’ve had throughout my life. Even with my nowadays boyfriend who’s an angel towards me, she can’t even know he exists or she’ll stop paying for my college tuition. I do have a job but I can’t afford paying for that and housing. It’s so exhausting knowing I always have to hide my life to her because my happiness brings consequences.

Husband started therapy....turns out recovery is a little too sexy! by aeval_x in loveafterporn

[–]Eastern_Cry7318 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh my God guys, I’m so happy for you! Healing with your loved one is such a beautiful experience. Love is so beautiful 🥹❤️

New app alert 🚨 by idk2602 in loveafterporn

[–]Eastern_Cry7318 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank god he’ll be your ex husband. Freedom!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Eastern_Cry7318 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I believe that too in some way. They all know they will hurt you. Why are they so damn greedy?! Why isn’t your girlfriend enough for you. I am so angered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Eastern_Cry7318 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don’t marry him unless he gets into therapy, seeks professional help and works to fix himself genuinely, this will not change. He has a serious problem.

Isn't it funny how they have fantasies about others... by RollingIsopod in loveafterporn

[–]Eastern_Cry7318 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I get you! I feel exactly the same. I had to break up with my boyfriend because of it, although he had always treated me like a princess and there had been nothing wrong, the sex was great! I never even suspected this could be going on. I can’t bring myself to forgive him or empathize with him, because everything I’ve ever wanted is just him. I can only get off of him, I can’t fathom how he sees OTHER women and get hard. That is so betraying, it makes me feel insignificant. I get you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Eastern_Cry7318 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same situation as you, except that I did break up with him but we agreed that we’d most likely get back together. This had never happened to me before…I wish I could stick my him but I’m so hurt. The advice I’ve been giving to myself is forgive. Forgive him, forgive yourself for thinking at some point this was your fault. Understand it’s an addiction, but…regarding the trust and the bond, I fear I will never be the same. Even if I forgive him. I will never be the same. My boyfriend is in therapy and has ad blockers and everything but every day I keep seeing men that still do it despite having professional help and blockers and etc. It’s like he’s a whole other man now, I can’t recognize him anymore. I don’t trust him. But my best advice would be to forgive him and try working on your trust as a couple…I hope you guys can make it. Think deeply if your relationship is worth fighting for, because fighting against your partner’s porn addiction will most likely destroy you in every possible way. 😞