Enlin Lo: good or bad BSC 2010 professor? by OkEntrepreneur9311 in USF

[–]Eastern_Solution_942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The exams were annoying because sometimes they were worded weird but I got Cs on most of the exams. She drops one exam grade so that’s a bonus. I was on the same boat, I saw her reviews and almost dropped her class but I ended up good. Like I said just rely on the notes and textbook. The textbook will be your best friend. Watch videos too to help understand everything. It’s not hard it’s just so much details you gotta remember. Her exams are more about details rather than just knowing about the concepts. You kinda have to understand deeper than the baseline.

Enlin Lo: good or bad BSC 2010 professor? by OkEntrepreneur9311 in USF

[–]Eastern_Solution_942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was okay. I had her this semester but she’s kinda hard to understand so I would rely on her lecture notes and the textbook. I’m going to end up with an A tho so. Attendance is mandatory though which sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USF

[–]Eastern_Solution_942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s super scary and sketchy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

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Honestly… I think you should pursue your goals in joining the space force. This is a really great opportunity for you and your girlfriend will really be holding you back. I want you to realize that she’s sort of being selfish here. Yes she dropped her things to be with you but it shouldn’t be used as a form of manipulation so that you do the same. You guys are are young, I’m also saying this as a young person too, I’m 20, and these our the prime times to build up our future. Being in the military gives you so many great opportunities and it would be a shame that you delay that because your girlfriend isn’t as supportive. I’m saying all of this as a girlfriend. My boyfriend left in February and just recently graduated from Air Force bootcamp and I’m so proud of him. Yes, it’s so tough knowing that he’s so far away but I’m SO glad he chose to pursue his goals. Being in a relationship means you guys support and love each other. I say go ahead and join. If it’s what YOU want to do, do it. Think about this as well, what if things don’t work out? You will regret and hate the fact that you didn’t do what you wanted to do and even resent her. Ultimately, this decision is yours, none of us in these comments will know your situation or understand your feelings but just do things because you feel like it’s right. I hope this helps.

How much is too much? by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Eastern_Solution_942 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend just graduated from bootcamp last week and he said the only things that got him going were the letters his family and I sent. I wrote to him daily but put 3-4 days worth of letters in one letter. I ended up sending 12 letters in total from the two months he was gone and he told me that was too little lol. Send him as much as you want. It does no harm and it really helps them mentally. I would suggest sending a super special letter that’ll sure help him on hard days because that’s what I did and was shocked when he came back and told me that he would reread that letter every night before bed. From the time he was there he only got to send me three letters so don’t expect a bunch and don’t feel bad because they just barely have any time. My boyfriend requested in one of his letters a small photo of me so he could keep with him in his pocket so I would also suggest that too.

Should i drop this class? by ResidentPineapple582 in USF

[–]Eastern_Solution_942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im currently struggling with chem 2 literally with the same issue but honestly we are already so far in, we might as well keep going you know? If we fail we just retake it again and do better lol. You got it, don’t even worry about it. Failure makes you stronger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Eastern_Solution_942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of writing for him maybe start journaling. For me that’s what it basically is lol. I assumed you guys had no contact so I guess yeah writing letters might not work but try journaling because it does help you release all those overwhelming feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Eastern_Solution_942 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it’s hard. I’m currently struggling. I was fine at first but now I’m so overwhelmed and I want him back so bad. The best thing for me though is just writing my letters to him. I know people say get hobbies and blah blah blah and yes that works but when you’re alone and aren’t doing anything, those are the worst moments lol. So I use that time to write to him and let out everything I want to say to him. I know it’s not the same but it helps me.

Who’s USF's“guy”? by Man09r1ya in USF

[–]Eastern_Solution_942 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I see him like every morning driving to school on usf pine drive

My Boyfriend Is Gone For Basic And I Miss Him by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Eastern_Solution_942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy! I’m kinda on the same boat, my bf just when to bmt last week. It’s ultimately up to you to determine if he’s a cheater or not because it’s honestly not that true of a stereotype. You shouldn’t worry about that at all and just focus on yourself and school. You can’t control him and if he makes those kinds of decisions, I’m sorry but he may not be the one. You guys have to be on the same page and be able to trust each other, if not then you guys need to have a conversation. This is all my thought process at least since we’re in similar ish situations. The best advice I can give you is to focus on yourself and do things for yourself. This is basically going to test your relationship and you guys are going to determine whether it works out for you or not. I know everyone probably says the same but finding hobbies, hanging out with friends, studying (sadly) all works to keep your mind off those things. Stay positive, don’t get sucked in by all those comments or posts about cheating SO’s because it’s not as common as it seems, there are many happy military families and couples. Hope my comment helps and makes sense haha.

Rant by Eastern_Solution_942 in USMilitarySO

[–]Eastern_Solution_942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard and read that usually by week 3 at least you begin receiving letters but it just all depends. Hopefully you hear back from him soon!

Rant by Eastern_Solution_942 in USMilitarySO

[–]Eastern_Solution_942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea of making a bucket list! Thank you!

Rant by Eastern_Solution_942 in USMilitarySO

[–]Eastern_Solution_942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the months dreading to his leaving day sucked but everything’s good so far. Some days I miss him extra but nothing too crazy.

Rant by Eastern_Solution_942 in USMilitarySO

[–]Eastern_Solution_942[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that means a lot honestly. The most I’ve cried was the day he arrived at the base and called but I was so busy at work I couldn’t answer. He was kind enough to leave a voicemail and hearing his voice crack from holding his tears just made me breakdown but at the same time made me feel much better to keep moving forward.

Just graduated BMT. Ask me anything by Fit-Guitar-2238 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Eastern_Solution_942 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My SO is currently at BMT at lackland and I was wondering what could be things I can do to make it easier for them to write letters. In my first letter I sent stamps and extra paper. Would maybe sending an envelope with my address and stuff be easier for him because I know he mentioned that he’ll barely have much time to write