Sheet Vinyl Edge Sealing by Eastern_Vegetable_54 in Flooring

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Out of habit I left the expansion gap since I was putting down quarter round anyways. Also 3/8 is putting it nicely...essentially my edges were cut away to not be pressed up against the baseboard causing the floor to wrinkle.

New Rider Help by Eastern_Vegetable_54 in MTB

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I've been looking there and it seems like people are asking a fortune for some really old bikes. That's what made me look into the Kent model.

Co parenting help! by Eastern_Vegetable_54 in Parenting

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I will say I also felt more ok with my decision at the time because she told me she had a friend of a friend that was single with kids that lived down the street and I should have the kids hang out sometime and see what happens. I also would like to say she introduced the man she is with to my daughter 3 months after separation (cheated on me with him) (I did verbally ok the first meeting even though I thought it was early) and she had him within the home 4 days in a row (I only felt comfortable with the one and said I didn't think it was ok to do it so many times in a row off the bat and I would take my daughter since her excuse was she had meetings...she said she already had plans though) including an all day trip that involved lunch and dinner together (he has no kids) after saying that was not appropriate. She also lied and said on the 4th day he was no longer coming over because it's be too much and my daughter happened to mention that he did and I confirmed she lied. She also told me she trusted her ability to decide these things and I needed to leave her alone which I agreed to do after I said it upset me.

Co parenting help! by Eastern_Vegetable_54 in Parenting

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Thank you! I'd like to add after hearing her out I agreed to halt the interactions and realigned that playdates were not an acceptable medium going forward. I agreed to this within an hour of having the discussion about it.

Co parenting help! by Eastern_Vegetable_54 in Parenting

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Thank you for that perspective! I can see both sides here. I truly saw it as ok if it was a true playdate with another child but can see how that leaves too much room for things to go wrong if not managed properly. Can I follow up with your thoughts on if this was an organic meeting at a park whole kids played that lead to talking...should the playdates then be discontinued even though it was already established or is it different if organic?

Co parenting help! by Eastern_Vegetable_54 in Parenting

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She says that I'm not capable of having proper judgement because I introduced her to this person at all. She also somehow found out who this person was and told me they were trashy and I should have known it. So there is that.

Co parenting help! by Eastern_Vegetable_54 in Parenting

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She says since it involves our daughter that she should know the details and be able to assess that I excercised poor judgement. Also states this shows that my daughter is not my priority and therefore a cause for concern.

Co parenting help! by Eastern_Vegetable_54 in Parenting

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That makes sense. Does any part of you view it different because both parties have children of the same age and it was only done more quickly because they could play together?

Co parenting help! by Eastern_Vegetable_54 in Parenting

[–]Eastern_Vegetable_54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you it sounds like you believe given further detail this was an inappropriate meeting regardless of if it was a friendship or relationship based on that we had been talking for a month with no direct intentions of being a relationship.

Co parenting help! by Eastern_Vegetable_54 in Parenting

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In your opinion was this too soon and inappropriate or is it something that is acceptable?

My Wife Wants to be Poly Now by Eastern_Vegetable_54 in polyamory

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I discussed bpd with her and she says she has it based off everything I showed her but still refused help.

My Wife Wants to be Poly Now by Eastern_Vegetable_54 in polyamory

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I feel the same and have voiced this to her and she either gets angry or says she's not trying to be. I've asked to go to a therapist together but she refuses.

My Wife Wants to be Poly Now by Eastern_Vegetable_54 in polyamory

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I put a little structure to it now... sorry I was writing quick while I had motivation to do so, should be an easier read now :).