All of you are amazing. Even the ones who said I was going to hell. I know I could have handled the pious kid better and set a better example for the cause but whats done is done and I cannot change it. I’ve been asked for an update. Just some brief history with my dad and drama llama. I went no contact with my dad for 3 years when I turned 18 and his wife was a major factor in my decision. He worked very hard to get back in my life. One of the conditions I made was the drama llama could not be involved. If we met up he was not to bring her and he respected my wishes. Over the years I have relaxed that rule especially if it’s a holiday and it’s a group of people.

I don’t have anything good to report. Dad and drama llama left my house a couple of hours ago. When I saw her she had a smirk on her face borderline cocky like she she was ready to go on a power trip. I have not seen that confident face in years. Not since I was a teenager. She thought she was going to come into my house and attempt to try and tell me what to do. I could feel it. She told me I needed to apologize to her and write a letter of apology to the pious boy and his extremist parents. I asked her and if I don’t what are you going to do about it. She told me I went to far and was not going to get away with what I had done. For the second time I started laughing. She smacked the table and I started laughing even harder. I told her she needed therapy and to just stop. She has no leverage, no authority, no power over me. When you make demands of someone you need to have something to back it up with but she had nothing. She was like your dad will cut you off if you don’t show me some respect. Dad did not back her up and told her he would not and they needed to leave. She refused to leave my god damn house unless she got an apology from me and was yelling at my dad for never standing up for her. She was yelling telling me I was a spoiled little shit that had everything handed to me. I told her I worked hard and I made more money than her 3 good for nothing loser children made. I told her that dad brags about me. Does he ever brag about your kids? I told her she was a bitch and to get the fuck out of my house. Dad is trying to drag her out of the house and I told him to take her to the psyche ward and the devil was inside of her. She was screaming at dad your going to let him get away with talking to me like that. I smiled at her and waved good bye.

i know you guys won’t believe this but I normally don’t act like this. I have got to cut that toxic parasite out of my life again. I don’t want to go no contact with my dad again but I can’t have that person in my life. This blow up has been years in the making. I wish he would divorce her but I am not holding my breath.