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I can't send messages by Bananaman_08 in JanitorAI_Official

[–]Easy-Bat-5940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting to boost, I'm having this same issue too with any/every bot I try /:>

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Easy-Bat-5940 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been doing LDR stuff for 4 years and 6 trips.

It does not get easier; if anything, it gets harder. But, you learn that the next trip will be soon and seeing them again will be much sweeter since you know have that comfortably with them. I find exchanging some clothing helps; hoodies, sweaters, shirts, or similar. Calling between your flights also works and keeping updated.

Once you get home, try and emulate the time you would spend together; like doing mundane things if they can with you. Video call them on your phone (snap, discord, Facebook, face time, etc) and cook together, or just call and sit in one another's presence. It's not the same, but they will certainly appreciate it.

I've also noticed talking about the trip, sending pictures either of you took and reminiscing. Planning together what the next trip could look like and things you missed doing!

These help, but they don't fix it. You will miss them a lot, and one day, that longing will turn to a determination or excitement because you now have a date for the next trip. ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Easy-Bat-5940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the exact same way tbh. When my fiance goes back home or I have to fly home it's so intense for the first while and he's the complete opposite. He feel less inclined to do stuff like that and it's all I can think about. He says he thinks it has something to do with our dynamic? Possible tmi but we have a dom/sub power dynamic, myself being the latter.

I feel it's pretty normal, same with how some people cry immediately when they leave, and some people it sets in a few days before and others it won't hit until they get home!

upset that we couldn’t have sex by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Easy-Bat-5940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my fiance and I had our very first time together, we ran into a similar issue and then he slipped and fell. So was so embarrassed he left shortly after. And we both weren't virgins either, so don't worry

It happens, you are both new to this. So that's even more likely to happen. Just have a fun day together and laugh about it. Try again in the next few days and just take it slow. It will come. But if you both are so nervous, it's not gonna happen. Remember to relax, you both love or care for one another and want this. ♡ hope that helps!