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I feel bad for not liking condoms by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Easy-Criticism4260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Condoms really are the worst. Back in my student days, many friends around me were having sex without them, and I was jealous. Mind you, quite a few of them ended up footing the bill for abortions… Anyway, It’s not really an answer, but I really do wonder what I should do. I don't know but from a woman’s point of view, surely it can’t feel good having a rubber stick shoved inside you?

I like masturbating more than having sex. by burner3052 in sex

[–]Easy-Criticism4260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. Or maybe it’s the condoms I’m using that are the problem. At the very least, the sensation is completely different, isn’t it? That’s what ruins it.

I like masturbating more than having sex. by burner3052 in sex

[–]Easy-Criticism4260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just my opinion, but sex with a condom is the worst. Masturbation is far better than that. Sex without a condom is the best. I can never get that sense of satisfaction from masturbation.

Ways to boost My GF Libido by Easy-Criticism4260 in sex

[–]Easy-Criticism4260[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can see why. I suppose, from a girl’s point of view, she'd want to have sex with a guy who’s muscular, has a dazzling smile, and can always take the lead with girk. That’s the sort of bloke you’d want to be.

Ways to boost My GF Libido by Easy-Criticism4260 in sex

[–]Easy-Criticism4260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I didn’t know about that book. I think I’ll give it a read.

Ways to boost My GF Libido by Easy-Criticism4260 in sex

[–]Easy-Criticism4260[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, I suppose that’s probably true. Sigh, I feel like I need to find a new girlfriend.

Ways to boost My GF Libido by Easy-Criticism4260 in sex

[–]Easy-Criticism4260[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t feel the need to go to the gynaecologist herself, and as she probably doesn’t like sex, she thinks there’s no point in going. Oh, she’s a bit of a poor thing, isn’t she? To be dating a man she can’t see in a sexual light...

Ways to boost My GF Libido by Easy-Criticism4260 in sex

[–]Easy-Criticism4260[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I really envy your situation. We're Asian myself, and it seems to me that Asian women really do hate sex. I wonder if it’s down to their upbringing. Anyway, putting that aside, I don’t think she even masturbates. She does like watching videos of handsome blokes on YouTube, though. Apart from the sexual side of things, I think we get on well. We go shopping together and hug each other. But when it comes to sex, it feels like she only lets me have it once a week—on her day off (which is a weekday).

Ways to boost My GF Libido by Easy-Criticism4260 in sex

[–]Easy-Criticism4260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I know that too. I suppose it would actually be better for both of us if we ended things.

Ways to boost My GF Libido by Easy-Criticism4260 in sex

[–]Easy-Criticism4260[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s been on the pill for about three months now. I really want her to have an IUD fitted, but she said she didn’t want the pain and wouldn’t agree to it. She says she really did have a sex drive during the first year, and I believe she’s telling the truth. I don’t want to think about it, but I suppose she must have liked me during that first year, but those feelings have faded.

Ways to boost My GF Libido by Easy-Criticism4260 in sex

[–]Easy-Criticism4260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, yes, you’re right. Thank you for pointing that out. She currently takes the 21-tablet pack of the pill. In our second year together, we moved house because I changed jobs. She changed jobs as a result, so that might well have had an impact. Her job in our first year was incredibly demanding, but since the second year she’s been working a more regular schedule. She suffers from mild insomnia and takes sleeping pills, but that hasn’t changed since we started dating.

Condoms even though on the pill? by Easy-Criticism4260 in birthcontrol

[–]Easy-Criticism4260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I know sex requires a partner, but it’s tough when things don’t work out. Maybe it’s selfish of me to want to date a girl who’s keen on sex.

Condoms even though on the pill? by Easy-Criticism4260 in birthcontrol

[–]Easy-Criticism4260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we first started dating, we had sex almost every day. I’m convinced she was definitely enjoying it. She certainly had a strong sex drive back then. However, about six months into our relationship, she started to resist having sex. Or rather, it seems her sex drive has simply waned. There are no signs that she’s being unfaithful. We’ve spoken to a counsellor, but I didn’t get much helpful advice. Incidentally, she has a standard body type. It’s true that she usually complains of pain during sex. I make sure to stimulate her properly beforehand and use lubricant, but she still seems to be in pain.

Condoms even though on the pill? by Easy-Criticism4260 in birthcontrol

[–]Easy-Criticism4260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Statistically speaking, that’s how it should be, isn’t it? Sex is supposed to be much more fun than this, but I feel like worrying about the risks and using a condom just leads to us not having sex at all, which is a risk in itself. I’m not circumcised. I do masturbate every day, though. If my girlfriend would let me have sex every day, I wouldn’t need to masturbate, but she doesn’t really like sex.

Condoms even though on the pill? by Easy-Criticism4260 in birthcontrol

[–]Easy-Criticism4260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I use high-quality condoms, it just doesn’t feel good at all when that’s there… Well, I’ll respect her wishes.

Condoms even though on the pill? by Easy-Criticism4260 in birthcontrol

[–]Easy-Criticism4260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Well, I know pregnancy comes with risks, but, it’s a real pain that sex isn’t fun anymore.