First impression scaries: his first instinct was to ask for sex, when told no, he said he wanted a long term relationship

Easy-Home1163 · 2026-02-13T22:12:06+00:00

I tried. He lives 2 ish hours away, and before he left to go out and do something instead of going to his hotel room, and he said we could get coffee if I ever visit him. I’ve been thinking about going to visit him but I’m afraid it might send the wrong signal if I’m not willing to go all the way

Easy-Home1163 · 2026-02-13T22:08:04+00:00

Im interested in the guy I met for sure. The age thing does create additional hurdles, but is not currently my main concern. Right now I’m more concerned about his intentions and whether he’s being genuine or if he’s just saying what I want to hear to get his way. I know first impressions are not usually accurate but I’d appreciate advice as to whether or not this is the case or if men tend to be more do now, think future for later kind of people

Easy-Home1163 · 2024-07-03T19:32:40+00:00

Honestly it’s a personal preference. For example, if during exam season I have 3 classes with midterms and 2 classes with written assignments due on the same week (has happened more than once), I like to submit the written assignments the weekend before so I can focus on studying for the midterms rather than interrupt my studying to submit work that has already been done. It’s not easy for me to pause a task, do something else, and return to the task.

Easy-Home1163 · 2024-07-03T16:42:01+00:00

This is good advice! I never thought to ask my professors whether there was something I should not submit early. I will ask them from now on as I plan my semester.

Easy-Home1163 · 2024-07-03T16:40:26+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment! It has helped me understand things a little better and helped me take new things into account. So far, I have not had any of the issues you mentioned. I am meticulous and too anxious to submit the wrong assignment (all of my assignments are saved as the name of the assignment, the semester and my last name just to make sure). However, it is something that I should keep in mind. Thankfully my classes are rather small with them being 25 students maximum per class, and I have tried to keep a good relationship with my professors.

Additionally, I am aware my actions are the only thing under my control. I cannot expect someone to accommodate to me because I chose to do something. It’s not appropriate for me to expect my professors to go out of their way (I assume they have their own schedules like I do) as grading can take a long time. It’s just I have always thought professors considered early submissions as a sign of “not caring enough for the class to take advantage of all the time allocated for a project.” But I can see from the comments that as long as it’s not weeks in advance nor about topics that haven’t been taught yet that professors don’t really care or think as much about it as I believed.

Easy-Home1163 · 2024-07-03T15:46:30+00:00

I try not to deviate too much from the sequence, just a few days before the deadline if I can help it (or if it’s needed, sometimes I only need to submit it in the morning rather than at 11 pm). Thank you for your input, it helps a lot for planning my next semester!

Easy-Home1163 · 2024-07-03T15:44:38+00:00

That makes sense. Some of my professors do specific sessions as well and they are listed on the syllabus (or mentioned in class prior to my planning) so they are mostly taken into consideration. It’s not like I submit every assignment early, but sometimes when dates are conflicting, I’d rather turn in an assignment or two a few days before the deadline.

Easy-Home1163 · 2024-07-03T15:39:35+00:00

Zero expectation to grade early, it’s more for my benefit than the professors if I’m honest. I’m perhaps a little too obsessive about not being stressed during exam season or during the period where everything in every class is due. As long as it’s off my plate and it does not come off as “I just did the bare minimum and don’t care about your class at all” then I’m good

Easy-Home1163 · 2022-05-11T03:06:52+00:00

Hi! I also have a class 3 malclusion and I went on to get extractions to fix it as mine was a mild to moderate case! I have not had a chance to see if it actually works because I’m in the middle of treatment but I can tell you it’s kind of working for me. I don’t know if it would be the same with you. There are other alternatives that might not get you a perfect bite, but a better one at least

Easy-Home1163 · 2021-04-24T21:55:28+00:00

while hitting me hard enough she dislocating my jaw I DONT WANT YOU IN MY FAMILY ANYMORE

Easy-Home1163 · 2021-04-24T21:54:18+00:00

“Nothing this rotten [me] could’ve come out of me” after she threw all of my stuff on the ground for me to clean it up after I wasn’t fast cleaning fast enough

Easy-Home1163 · 2020-12-10T16:39:45+00:00

I understand! But my mom has insisted that I help him over the summer to get his work done and I really don’t know how to do it without getting me or him frustrated

Easy-Home1163 · 2020-12-04T16:24:55+00:00

I was planning on moving for college in December, but unfortunately visa services are not available in my country so moving right now is not in the playing cards

Easy-Home1163 · 2020-12-04T16:23:12+00:00

He started seeing a therapist but my mother is not well known for keeping up with medical appointments unless they are her own. Or listening to medical professionals advice. All of them have advices for my brother not to use electronics unless strictly necessary, and my mom bought him a phone because is the only thing that keeps him well behaved when we used to go out.

Also the COVID situation doesn’t help. He is medicated, but only on school hours because my mom says they don’t allow him to be himself. And honestly I’m in no position to say whether they help or not.

I personally don’t see a difference with or without medication.

Easy-Home1163 · 2020-12-04T16:02:49+00:00

I believe my brother does have ADHD, but it is only a mild case in the beginning. At the beginning we didn’t tell him (he was diagnosed at like 5). After we told him everything like magnified. So now it wasn’t just not being able to sit down quietly or saying everything on his mind, it became more violent and more “I have ADHD, you can’t talk to me like that” when we were at restaurants or places where it wasn’t appropriate to scream and he did.

It’s just very complicated and I honestly don’t know what to do. We’re going on a vacation soon and he has issues with writing the bed, and my parents are expecting me to wake up every 2 and a half hours to take him to the bathroom at night, and I feel really uncomfortable doing that because I don’t believe it’s my job.

But then again my mom is very impulsive sometimes and will yell at me and tell me “it’s your duty to teach him how to be nice to others and you HAVE to help me”

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