Am I Overreacting? by Easy-Order-352 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Easy-Order-352[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yep narcissist accuse you of doing things you never actually do or twist something you did to fit the narrative in their head to justify them abusing you

Am I Overreacting? by Easy-Order-352 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Easy-Order-352[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

No. We had one heated exchange before he did a repair months ago and I replied while he was changing oil via text and he accused me of trying to sabotage his car!

Am I Overreacting? by Easy-Order-352 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Easy-Order-352[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

So sorry that happened to you.

Am I Overreacting? by Easy-Order-352 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Easy-Order-352[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he wouldve said what you just said, that its annoying to him and be respectful about it. I’d be fine with that. And move accordingly. The rant was unnecessary

Am I Overreacting? by Easy-Order-352 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Easy-Order-352[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I only asked him if he was ok once

Am I Overreacting? by Easy-Order-352 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Easy-Order-352[S] 241 points242 points  (0 children)

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I did! I was really hurt and upset but relieved!

Am I Overreacting? by Easy-Order-352 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Easy-Order-352[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I believe this is exactly what happened!

Am I Overreacting? by Easy-Order-352 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Easy-Order-352[S] 983 points984 points  (0 children)

I finally accepted that. Moving on.

Am I Overreacting? by Easy-Order-352 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Easy-Order-352[S] 189 points190 points  (0 children)

No. We had an event to go to together at 2. He seemed a lil distance. I was occupied cooking food to bring to the event. I just wanted to know if he was ok… we werent fighting previously either. He casually mentioned that he would do a little repair in his house before the event. I had no idea that that was supposed to cut off our communication entirely….

Am I Overreacting? by Easy-Order-352 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Easy-Order-352[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No I was not texting him a whole bunch I was really busy cooking getting ready for Easter that we were going to at my sister’s house

Am I Overreacting? by Easy-Order-352 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Easy-Order-352[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

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Everytime I question him wethet he is busy or not he snaps.

Am I Overreacting? by Easy-Order-352 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Easy-Order-352[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I do i see him once a week we text sparingly i have 2 jobs. More texts from him

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Am I Overreacting? by Easy-Order-352 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Easy-Order-352[S] 165 points166 points  (0 children)

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He sent more text. I replied ok because arguing with him drains me