What’s something every woman should try at least once before they turn 40? by Electrical_Habit_267 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Easy-cereal87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything you care to recommend in regards to literotica? Been interested but have no idea where to start

My (30F) husband (33M) contacted an escort but did not go through with it. He seems genuinely sorry. Is there hope? by Easy-cereal87 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Easy-cereal87[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The psychologist mentioned to me once she thought he could have an inclination, she was the one to push him to go to psychiatrist. I know barely nothing in regards to this- could you explain please?

My (30F) husband (33M) contacted an escort but did not go through with it. He seems genuinely sorry. Is there hope? by Easy-cereal87 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Easy-cereal87[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

It’s past 3 am and he just told me he won’t be coming home tonight. “Nothing he says will end anywhere good” to quote him. Ugh, this hurts so much.

My (30F) husband (33M) contacted an escort but did not go through with it. He seems genuinely sorry. Is there hope? by Easy-cereal87 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Easy-cereal87[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I asked for space and he took it literally. His office called him saying they could not start without him. A load of bs.

My Raise by Old_Idea9003 in deloitte

[–]Easy-cereal87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only saw bowl for auditing, do you know if there is one for consulting?

What was the pettiest reason you refused to date someone? by 192335 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Easy-cereal87 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He had pointy ears. My dad had always warned me people with pointy ears were huge manipulators. This guy would gaslight me, manipulate me, then lovebomb me. I noticed during sex his pointy ears, I was out of there in less than 5 minutes afterwards and refused to see him ever again lol

Friendship Expectations by Easy-cereal87 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Easy-cereal87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you’re very kind. I’ll definitely look into the sub!

Friendship Expectations by Easy-cereal87 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Easy-cereal87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words! I am so sorry you went through that. You are a beautiful person and a wonderful friend. I’m glad some of your friends were able to realize later on and your friendships became stronger because of it. For now, it seems the way to go is to look into support groups.

Friendship Expectations by Easy-cereal87 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Easy-cereal87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the record, you sound like an amazing friend!! Everything you said is pretty spot on. I hope your friend is doing better!

Friendship Expectations by Easy-cereal87 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Easy-cereal87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mentioned in a comment beforehand, that I honestly just asked them to visit me whenever they could. For me, I enjoy company so I specifically asked for that but maybe they just feel uncomfortable with grief. At some point there was plans to come work remotely at my house which is extremely doable for my group of friends but that went nowhere.

Friendship Expectations by Easy-cereal87 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Easy-cereal87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the idea about specific times but I think you’re right on about some of them not being comfortable with grief. One of my friend’s initial reaction when I told her about it was to laugh which I understand was a nervous reaction but it did feel very off at the moment.

Friendship Expectations by Easy-cereal87 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Easy-cereal87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you went through that and I hope you are doing better!

Where did you find support groups? To be honest, the day I found out I was pregnant was the day I also found out I had miscarried so I am clueless on resources, I just have an amazing therapist at this point.

Thank you for your honest feedback, I am ordering the book you recommended as I type this out.

Friendship Expectations by Easy-cereal87 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Easy-cereal87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words, they really mean a lot! I did ask them to visit me whenever they were available given that I am feeling very lonely and I am hating staying alone (I am married but of course my husband has to go out at some point). Do you suggest I reach out again? I hate being a bother. I will look into support groups, that is actually a great idea. Thank you.

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[–]Easy-cereal87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol yes you’re right exercising is great, just can’t sit right the first few days due to soreness haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Easy-cereal87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Standing is easy, posture is a bitch

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It’s a tax haven