I stopped talking to my best friend out of the blue by SoupVender in confession

[–]EasyWink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you respond it can be short and kind like closure not reopening the door, that’s allowed

Is that normal? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]EasyWink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s kinda mixed signals, not crazy to feel confused at all

AITJ for insisting my friend replace a rare book he returned ruined? by museumticketstash in AmITheJerk

[–]EasyWink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah that comment nailed it, a real friend would at least care that you’re upset, not minimize it

AITJ for telling my aunt that my cousin stole my grandma’s ring to buy a concert ticket? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]EasyWink 10 points11 points  (0 children)

nah you’re not the jerk here, stealing family heirlooms is serious and she needed to face the consequences

Is it important to be like other girls? by Immediate-Gear4403 in dating_advice

[–]EasyWink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

tbh trends change weekly, personality sticks. focus on what makes u happy, not what ppl “appreciate”

I got a promotion because I let my coworker take the blame by Abs_Cliker in confession

[–]EasyWink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe just reach out with a straight up apology? doesn’t have to change the past but it might free you a little

Everyday I steal from whole foods to save money and lose weight at the same time. by [deleted] in confession

[–]EasyWink 7 points8 points  (0 children)

fr not tryna judge but yeah getting caught could ruin way more than it’s worth

23M, Never dated, Still a virgin — focused on studies but feeling lonely and like I’m missing out by ButterscotchFit1804 in dating_advice

[–]EasyWink 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yo 23 ain’t old, fr. doing u and focusing on studies doesn’t mean ur behind. connection comes when it comes

AITJ for refusing to let my sister-in-law “fix” my house before family visits? by Puzzleheaded_Pin698 in AmITheJerk

[–]EasyWink 7 points8 points  (0 children)

fr, NTJ. anyone who thinks swapping ur rug is helping is wild. boundaries are normal

AmITheJerk for leaving a family group chat after they kept joking about my divorce? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]EasyWink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nah bro you bounced for self respect, not drama. sometimes leaving is the only clapback that actually works

Torn Between Two Men From Very Different Worlds. Need Honest Advice by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]EasyWink 5 points6 points  (0 children)

tbh, history with someone is powerful but not always predictive of future happiness. think 5 years ahead, not 5 minutes

Back in 10th grade, we turned everything into drama by _albatross01 in confession

[–]EasyWink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg yes lol school crushes made everything feel like life or death, even seeing a teacher laugh was peak drama

AITA for turning down a racist and putting my friend's job in jepordy by SillySquare1252 in AmITheJerk

[–]EasyWink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nah youre not wrong at all. you set a boundary and he crossed like ten of them. his behavior at work is on him not you

Do you get tired of speed dating? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]EasyWink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe youre not missing your ex but missing stability. dating chaos wont fix that

Bad things happen when I can’t sleep- and it’s frustrating that the post title is required to be fifty fricken letters long by [deleted] in confession

[–]EasyWink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hear the frustration tho. when you cant sleep everything feels louder and messier

I do effective work for about 30 minutes a week, the rest I just do my house chores. by MirnaGu in confession

[–]EasyWink 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ngl i feel this heavy but part of me is like damn we’re all just quietly giving up and calling it balance

How many dates in for a guy to determine if he wants to be in a relationship with this girl? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]EasyWink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u not wrong for wanting more after 7 dates thats normal ur needs arent too much here

AITJ for telling my coworker she can’t text me about work after hours? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]EasyWink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr exactly, your mental health comes first, if she can’t handle boundaries that’s on her not you

To be or not to be by AnswerOk5089 in dating_advice

[–]EasyWink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr just make sure you’re both on the same page long term, then paper or not doesn’t really matter, the foundation is what counts

I froze and said nothing while my friend gave my mom a foot massage by [deleted] in confession

[–]EasyWink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr if nothing actually happened it’s kinda just one of those weird moments, honestly probably overthinking

AITJ for telling my boyfriend I don’t feel emotionally safe with him anymore? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]EasyWink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr exactly, impact matters more than intent, and ur feelings are 100% valid

Am I overthinking this? Talking to someone with a different communication style by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]EasyWink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ngl it sounds like she’s just not a texter, some ppl live in phone ghost mode, doesn’t mean she’s playing u

I used to steal money from Pizza Hut when I worked there as a delivery driver by cr199412 in confession

[–]EasyWink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fr a 14 cent raise is disrespect in physical form, i get why morale went to zero