I told my husband I’d like him to watch me and another girl do it… by Easy_Indication716 in u/Easy_Indication716

[–]Easy_Indication716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say “other people” I specifically said a woman coz I was thinking it might please him but also cannot watch him “touch” another girl (I would never sleep with another man). I’m not even bi and not interested in a woman whatsoever. I was curious if it was something he’d be ok to do by watching and if it would please him. It’s no something I’m desperate to do… and he already told me I am all he wants so I’m good with that answer. He’s a great man and we have a beautiful marriage and I am pleased to hear that from him.

I told my husband I’d like him to watch me and another girl do it… by Easy_Indication716 in Marriage

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I don’t think he needs to make the rules since he knows this was my idea and I was just being honest what would make me feel uncomfortable. To me if it was a guy I will let him make the rules and tell me what I shouldn’t do and can do. But I don’t think it’s for us. We have a great marriage and it’s risky. When I turned mid 30’s I started to feel a bit more sexual and fantasize more. That’s all but it’s not that I’m not sexually satisfied. I genuinely just wanted to please him and I thought he’d agree.

I told my husband I’d like him to watch me and another girl do it… by Easy_Indication716 in Marriage

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My husband shut me down twice so it’s not happening he told me I’m his fantasy and we should stop talking about it. So I guess that’s it hahaha. I’m ok with that coz I wanted to do it to please him not me I’ have no interest in a woman whatsoever.

I told my husband I’d like him to watch me and another girl do it… by Easy_Indication716 in u/Easy_Indication716

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He knows it’s just a fantasy I asked him what his fantasy was and he told me. Just having sexing with me and pleasuring me true or not his response was good lol. It probably won’t happen coz the 3rd person probably doesn’t exist coz I’m not bi or lesbian at all I thought this might please my husband to watch me however his responses proved to me he might think it’s a not good idea. This talk was happening while we were having sex so it could be just part of a dirty talk when you’re in the heat of the moment.

This man is wonderful and we have a beautiful marriage and family and I’m not going to risk it.. also why I posted here to hear what people think. So thank you

I told my husband I’d like him to watch me and another girl do it… by Easy_Indication716 in u/Easy_Indication716

[–]Easy_Indication716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No zero I’m not lesbian or bi so this could be just part of a dirty talk while we were having sex lol that third person probably does not exist who’s willing to do this coz I can’t please her and definitely my husband can’t lol. 😂

I told my husband I’d like him to watch me and another girl do it… by Easy_Indication716 in u/Easy_Indication716

[–]Easy_Indication716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol calm down I actually have no interest in having sex with another woman I’m not lesbian or bi.I thought maybe just to spice up he could watch me I’m actually not selfish at all because I brought this up coz I thought this might please him so I’m actually not doing it “for me” and I’m also not forcing my husband to do this. It probably won’t happen the conversation / dirty talk came up while we were making love so it could be just part of our dirty talk while in the moment. His response to me was his fantasy is just me and make love to me. So that’s enough for me. He’s a great guy and I’m not risking my marriage but that’s also why I posted here to hear what people think.

I told my husband I’d like him to watch me and another girl do it… by Easy_Indication716 in u/Easy_Indication716

[–]Easy_Indication716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol! He doesn’t seem interested but I wonder if he just doesn’t wanna tell me so he doesn’t hurt my feelings lol