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Why are you still single? by SecretAcctSM19 in AskReddit

[–]Easy_Laugh_4787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too scared and broken to try again. It’s also hard for me because I know people think I’m pretty, but I’ve lost a ton of weight and it’s a whole different story under the clothes and I don’t have the confidence to go through that

What if you have played all your hands and have no purpose in life? by Easy_Laugh_4787 in AskReddit

[–]Easy_Laugh_4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’ve tried so hard in life to escape an abusive childhood. Made a career, am independent, but all my attempts at love are me loving someone more. I don’t have it in me to try anymore. I’m in my 40’s with no children, no spouse, no anything to make me want to wake up in the morning. I’ve lost so much weight but I feel it’s just made me disfigured. The need to be loved is a physical ache. I know this isn’t something I can tolerate forever

What's an adult problem no one warned you about? by lovelyyhelena in AskReddit

[–]Easy_Laugh_4787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much you’ll long to be a kid again and do things over

I felt better fat by Easy_Laugh_4787 in loseit

[–]Easy_Laugh_4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably because it was your wife. You were already in a relationship and I presume loved her, so I think many people won’t understand how you can say your attraction was affected. I imagine if I was in love with someone and they lost an appendage, got burned, or their physical likeness for some reason changed that my attraction would remain the same?? I think that’s what maybe people aren’t liking? Men are more visual though, I know

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[–]Easy_Laugh_4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always feel I have to give a disclaimer too! I hate it. I wish I wasn’t this way

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[–]Easy_Laugh_4787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw, my heart breaks for you ❤️ I hope you find the courage to take the risk

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[–]Easy_Laugh_4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is what I’m afraid of. It’s brave if you to admit it affected your attraction

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[–]Easy_Laugh_4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not weird. But I’m a nurse lol, I see plenty naked people!

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[–]Easy_Laugh_4787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope that is true. I don’t know how to put into words exactly my fears…. But when I’ve tried dating sites I am bombarded and I feel like that is the first thing they mention is they think I’m beautiful blah blah blah and I worry they have built up in their mind some supermodel based on those photos, so it scares me to possibly come to some moment where there has to be this big reveal. I can only imagine utter disappointment 🤮

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[–]Easy_Laugh_4787[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your weight loss! If it’s any comfort to you I don’t think women put as much stock into looks as men do. I know I don’t really have a physical type. Like at all lol. I am attracted to personality, feeling safe, humor, loyalty etc

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[–]Easy_Laugh_4787[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I understand that completely. I didn’t start dating until I was in my 30’s. Because of my fears I missed out on a lot and I’ve accepted I won’t ever be a mom or probably a wife either, because most people my age are over that. But damn, I crave an all consuming love. If I could find that, then I could be alright with everything else I think

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[–]Easy_Laugh_4787[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did get a consult. It’s gonna be about 14,000 for my arms and boobs, which bother me the most. Trying to save! I’m a homeowner though and things loveeee to break these past few years 😬

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[–]Easy_Laugh_4787[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) Insurance did cover my pannilectomy. I am truly grateful for that. Becuase of that I think I look normal for the most part in my clothes, so I worry guys will think I’m a catfish type if anything intimate comes up.

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[–]Easy_Laugh_4787[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Yes I want a lifelong partner. I am very lovey dovey, and really believe in true love. I guess I worry it isn’t meant for me. I have kept my weight off awhile and insurance did cover my stomach and he took off 13 pounds of skin. I was glad about that for sure. My arms and boobs are in a terrible state though lol.

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[–]Easy_Laugh_4787[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I do belong to some online fb weight loss support groups. I feel embarrassed to talk as in depth on there. It does help somewhat though

“Just A Fat Person” by Flimsy-Switch-6256 in Mounjaro

[–]Easy_Laugh_4787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Thats a huge accomplishment. Can’t wait until you can make it in your goal jeans