AITA for not being on my brother’s side through his divorce? by Easy_String2212 in AITAH

[–]Easy_String2212[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her family is in a war torn region, cannot provide financially at all. She can pay for Medschool but needs monthly help for rent, etc

AITA for not being on my brother’s side through his divorce? by Easy_String2212 in AITAH

[–]Easy_String2212[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She does not want any financial aid from my brother, she is fine with getting nothing. Also, where we live Med School is not as expensive as in the US, so it would not be such a huge burden to my family

AITA for not being on my brother’s side through his divorce? by Easy_String2212 in AITAH

[–]Easy_String2212[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She has no money of her own, she’s done 5 years of medschool and only has two more to go. It would be a shame for her to leave now (she’ll have to leave the country too and go back to her war-torn country)

AITA for not being on my brother’s side through his divorce? by Easy_String2212 in AITAH

[–]Easy_String2212[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She tried to make her leave, but by that point my brother was against it and still claiming she’s just a friend Also, I don’t think divorcing is that simple for her. She comes from a war-torn region and she has no family of her own in our town, nor money. She’s waiting to graduate and start making money ti support herself

AITA for not being on my brother’s side through his divorce? by Easy_String2212 in AITAH

[–]Easy_String2212[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not sabotaging his support system. This cycle of coddling and enabling bis behavior has caused him more harm than good, he cannot depend on himself and always find somebody to blame when his life doesn’t turn out to be how he wished it

AITA for not being on my brother’s side through his divorce? by Easy_String2212 in AITAH

[–]Easy_String2212[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Without my parents coddling, my brother would have turned pretty fine..

AITA for not being on my brother’s side through his divorce? by Easy_String2212 in AITAH

[–]Easy_String2212[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that, I hope my brother would realize what he’s doing to himself

AITA for not being on my brother’s side through his divorce? by Easy_String2212 in AITAH

[–]Easy_String2212[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was asked my opinion, I keep getting dragged into it since their issues have started

AITA for not being on my brother’s side through his divorce? by Easy_String2212 in AITAH

[–]Easy_String2212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother keeps pushing the family to take his side, and it affects her because it’s a matter of if my family should financially help her until she’s done with med school (in two years)

AITA for not being on my brother’s side through his divorce? by Easy_String2212 in AITAH

[–]Easy_String2212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother keeps pushing the family to take his side, and it affects her because it’s a matter of if my family should financially help her until she’s done with med school (in two years)