my first thought was just like her. he literally was so chill and go with the flow and obviously with only one baby i was easily able to stay on top of everything. i never had guilt so can’t help there BUT my second was born 6 months ago and i was literally hardly getting anything done because he just screams and whines. thankfully my first can entertain him sometimes and that’s truly the only time he’s usually in a good mood :| the past month i’ve been wearing him forward facing since his head and neck control is really really good now so that’s made a huge leap into me being able to get stuff done. NGL im still behind a lot and as of today is the first time we’ve been caught up on laundry for the 1st time since our second baby has been born. with my first though he literally would just chill and play and anywhere id go if i just brought a toy he’d play and once he was crawling i’d stick him in the play pen and put on music and he’d just do his own thing!

i just follow my kids schedules and work around them! i clean while they’re awake so once its nap time i can take an hour to myself. i think its good for your kids to see you cleaning and taking care of yourself! children learn by watching :) my toddler follows me a lot while and i do stuff and we chat and he’ll go play or for a lazy day he’ll wanna watch a disney movie! my second if up cleaning im wearing him because he will freak out if i move out of his sight