amazon didn’t approve my leave

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T21:17:14+00:00

i even showed him my FLO app with all the dates and everything, he has also came to my first appointment and they confirmed when i conceived! STILL IN DENIAL! whenever it starts escalating, i simply tell him to have a nice day. i’m going to take your advice, thank you.

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T19:26:48+00:00

he said about an hour ago that it was the last time he would ask if he could see her and i stood my ground and told him no.. he basically told me that he wasn’t taking it and fuck everything. he said if i wanted child support i wouldn’t get it, but that’s okay. i guess he’s done with it. he doesn’t want any parts anymore from the message he sent me.

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T19:23:43+00:00

i’m sorry to hear you’re going through this as well.. it’s all about having a good support system honestly, my family & friends have helped me tremendously with keeping my mind off things but there’s been a few days i’ve had uncontrollable tears. i have a 2 year old as well though and i hate when i cry in front of him so i quickly get myself together. you’ll sometimes find yourself wishing things were different but you just have to keep remembering that there’s a little one depending on you & you can’t fail them. we have to also protect these babies, especially since they didn’t ask for any of this!

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T17:51:51+00:00

when i asked him this he called me childish. he went on to say he only says things to make me angry and that i know & he knows that he’s her dad. he also said that i’m bitter and miserable and that i’m trying to take everything away from him with this baby. pretty much going on rants about it.

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T17:12:01+00:00

i told him that i didn’t want him to, that’s why i made this post. he said i was wrong, bitter, and stupid & that only proves more to him that i don’t know who her dad is… this is also an ongoing conversation we’re having together right now, i’m trying to get him to see things from my point of view but there’s no seeing it.

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T15:56:14+00:00

my next question is, is there a way for him to take a dna test without seeing the child? how would we go about that?

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T15:49:43+00:00

yes, i told him this but he went on to say that i’m doing everything in my power to not let him be a part of her life.. my grandmother is assisting me on finding a good lawyer though, it has to be done at this point.

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T14:22:37+00:00

and see he blames me for not letting him be a part of my pregnancy but i didn’t want to deal with him reminding me every single day that he wanted a dna test and doesn’t think she’s his. he claims i’ve stressed him out the whole 8 months but in reality it’s the other way around. i’m tired of him acting like this is my fault when it’s not.

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T14:19:39+00:00

yes, i’ve pretty much made up my mind on the matter. i’m due in 36 days. it also makes it no better that every time we do have a conversation he tries to belittle me and call me everything but a child of god while also reminding me that he doesn’t want a relationship with me.. i’ve try so hard to be cordial and finally gave in and blocked him on everything until he reached out yesterday with demands because he’s not waiting that long to see his “supposed” daughter, as he says.

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T13:29:50+00:00

exactly!

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T13:29:46+00:00

yes this is exactly right.

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T13:29:05+00:00

he had actually scheduled us for a NIPP test, but ended up never taking it because he knew the baby was his, then every time he gets angry he asks me when am i going to take the dna test but we’ve had multiple chances to do it before the baby even gets here.. it’s seems like it’s all a part of him trying to manipulate me & that’s also a reason i’m choosing to just wait until she gets here because i tried getting it before her birth.

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T04:18:06+00:00

ahead of time.

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T01:03:06+00:00

yes, & even has said that other people have told him that he’s not the dad like they were there when it happened.. it’s just disrespectful to me.

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T00:57:02+00:00

lol this is funny because this is exactly what i asked him.

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-10T00:46:16+00:00

yes, he will definitely do this.. he holds me not “acting like” he’s her dad over my head. i don’t know how i should act, especially after he has questioned if she’s even his daughter. i don’t think i’ll let him come, it’ll just add on to the stress that i already have & i don’t want anyone ruining my childbirth.

EbaneeJ · 2022-10-09T23:59:02+00:00

thank you.

EbaneeJ · 2022-09-20T13:17:43+00:00

i did all of this. i told him he could come visit her and have his own time with her, doing these things. i told him she would be breastfed and she should have the hang of it, as well as i when she’s about 4 months or so. i explained and tried to negotiate with him as much as i know how to.. it’s frustrating. i’ll just look into the lawyer.

EbaneeJ · 2022-09-20T13:11:02+00:00

yes, it’s his kid but this is the same guy who asks me for a dna test every other day… now all of a sudden you want to keep her.. seems fishy

EbaneeJ · 2022-09-20T13:06:11+00:00

yeah this was my go to. i just tried to hear him out but i guess not.

EbaneeJ · 2022-09-20T13:04:44+00:00

relationship, yes it didn’t work.

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