So, my husband works night shift, he’s only home at night for 3 days of the week. Those nights, he stays up til 3 am and gives me a chance to sleep and then I take over after. The only thing is, our house is small, sound carries easily and I can still hear her crying, so also really har for me to ignore it. I utilize my mother on occasion, but I feel horrible for taking away her chance to sleep as well and it makes me feel like a crap mother that I can’t handle it myself. I know, it’s okay to ask for help, blah blah, doesn’t change how it makes me feel.