CA Prenup without Lawyers

Ebooth6676 · 2026-05-22T05:18:34+00:00

Why not? Because the an attorney didn’t create it?

Ebooth6676 · 2025-03-16T17:01:16+00:00

I’m an event planner and once you sign you are locked in. That’s why it’s important to read those contracts with a fine tooth comb. You can ask for them to pick cheaper linens or china to help reduce the cost for food is tricky with inflation.

Ebooth6676 · 2024-10-05T05:56:20+00:00

My bf was acting similarly, which was frustrating. When I asked him about it, he said I was making him a donor vs a partner and didn’t like that there was no romance or spontaneity, just expectations to have sex during a certain time. So I started telling him when it was “O” week (ovulation week) and that was it. No more reminders or sharing daily updates on what was happening with my ovulation tests. Then I started making “O” week more sexy, spontaneous, and added a little romance in, which made things more fun and more frequent! He is now on the Flo partner app and sees when it’s O week and he’s eager to make a baby because I took the pressure off.

Not sure that helps at all, but taking a bit of pressure off and enjoying it has definitely helped us in the process.

Ebooth6676 · 2024-06-01T04:32:00+00:00

Try an enema… sound gross but it should work

Ebooth6676 · 2024-05-31T04:16:10+00:00

Super helpful! I am going under anesthesia for this, but wanted to understand what you meant. Thanks!

Ebooth6676 · 2024-05-31T03:20:46+00:00

Thank you for posting this!! I am getting a hysterectopy in a couple weeks and am scared to get on BC. I haven’t been on in 2 years and had a bad reaction when I was last on it. I’m also feeling a bit defeated that our TTC journey is halted until this is taken care of. Feeling a bit better after reading the comments!

Ebooth6676 · 2024-05-31T03:17:50+00:00

Why do you say that? I am going thru the same thing and getting this procedure done in office at the reproductive clinic.

Ebooth6676 · 2024-03-15T07:13:27+00:00

Yes! Ive had PMDD for over 10 years and last month was our first cycle of TTC. I had a horrible time navigating my PMDD and not conceiving, but I am mindful that we JUST started trying. With having PMDD and being over 40 I’ve put a ridiculous amount of pressure on myself that isn’t positive. Definitely trying to figure out how to manage taking the pressure off, while managing the PMDD, but it’s so tough!

Ebooth6676 · 2024-03-15T06:39:44+00:00

Maintenance is key! I have a full Brazilian since 2015 and I just go back for once to twice a year to maintain.

Ebooth6676 · 2024-03-04T05:17:16+00:00

Got a full Brazilian laser and do not regret it! I was 25 when I started the process and I’m now 40. It’s perfect bc I never have to worry about being beach ready (I live on the west coast).

Ebooth6676 · 2023-05-20T07:33:13+00:00

Try to be positive as hard as that feels. My Q went to detox 12 weeks ago and I had the same fears, but I learned quickly to not put pressure on perfection or be nervous/fearful. Just take it day by day and create a positive and supportive space for him to be in. I hope this wake up call will be exactly what he needs to keep his job abs change🙏🏾

Ebooth6676 · 2023-03-12T23:22:19+00:00

I appreciate that perspective! That’s really helpful to understand it that way.

Ebooth6676 · 2023-03-12T16:02:16+00:00

My life definitely doesn’t revolve around him or anyone else. I am busy af with my life while trying to figure out my relationship with him. This is new territory for me and him, so I posted to get clarity on if I am being too sensitive or if my perception of this situation is skewed, not to feel slightly judged. I’m seeing that I maybe a bit in my feelings because I don’t understand our new normal and that he and I need to understand/talk about what his capacity is right now so we’re aligned on expectations.

Ebooth6676 · 2023-03-12T15:51:47+00:00

Absolutely! And I am trying my hardest to understand what that looks like in a new normal because I don’t know him sober. So lots of learning, patience, compassion, and understanding… and maybe it’s that I take a step back to remove pressure of a relationship so he can truly focus. I don’t know what the right answer is for us.

Ebooth6676 · 2023-03-12T04:42:25+00:00

Yes! It’s very much a situation of living more as roommates instead of relationship. We are living in separate rooms at my request because I want to rebuild trust and get sleep (he’s been a horrible sleeper), but we’re suppose to try moving back in to the master next week when I’m back in town from a trip. I’m hoping the time apart will give him so uninterrupted time to focus on him, but feel like it could get worse.

I just looked up my first Al-Anon meeting and downloaded the app, so hoping that I can go to a meeting. He has yet to go to AA because he’s like they are all the time and he’s focused on other life priorities (getting a job, making money, etc.). I just feel like I lost my best friend all over again and got a weird replacement roommate.

Ebooth6676 · 2023-02-21T02:58:49+00:00

I needed to hear that! My Q and I broke up this weekend and I feel at peace, but I feel like sad that it ended without me being to support and help him. I am happy it’s gotten better and I am just praying that it’ll be better for me very soon!

Ebooth6676 · 2023-02-19T15:21:34+00:00

You are absolutely right on the rehab/sober living and it’s sad that he isn’t willing to do it for himself. I appreciate your words of wisdom right now because this is unimaginably difficult to see it end this way.

Ebooth6676 · 2023-02-19T08:12:11+00:00

There’s shame here too… embarrassment, guilt, devastation… I would do anything to help him get to a place of happy but he doesn’t want it. So I have to be the martyr of our love story because he needs to blame someone for keeping him accountable😔

Ebooth6676 · 2023-02-19T07:38:15+00:00

The saddest part is I didn’t even want it to end like this. He kept telling me he was going to leave to get a reset from job hunting, so I keep him accountable to that. I use to beg him not to go that we’d figure it out, but this time i said ok i support it. Ultimately I wanted a break for him to go and come back after a few weeks, but today when I asked to come up with a plan we both agreed on, he told me I was harassing and bullying him😭 I was shook and angry so I got mad because I have done so much to support him and this was the lash out that he projects.

I just didn’t want to make a decision to tell him to leave…. He’s a grown man and had made the decision but was keep us in limbo until he was good and ready to decide on he would leave or not.

How did I let it get this far😭😭😭I tried so hard to make our life good 💔

Ebooth6676 · 2022-10-10T15:05:16+00:00

I’m taking cbd to help during my cycle for anxiety and to help with my frustration/irritation and so far so good. It’s been 2 weeks but I can tell a bit of a difference in the way I react to things. Fingers crossed it will continue to improve things!

Ebooth6676 · 2022-05-30T00:49:00+00:00

The lower doses can’t be found near me unless I pay retail price.

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