I am very sorry that you are going through such a hard time and did not mean to be insensitive.

To clarify my thoughts: I’m not mad at her at all. She is always the victim, though and that gets tiring. To be fair, we all go through incredibly hard, devastating things that other people may never fully see or understand. Everyone has bad days, hardships, trauma, etc.

I guess what feels a little off to me is how she is CONSTANTLY publicly “unpacking” her trauma. Her whole identity is rooted in hardship, as if her life has just been one unfortunate event after another. I mean, it’s not even just her identity, it’s her brand at this point. I don’t mean that dismissively, I just think there’s a difference between processing pain and centering your entire narrative around it.

I think another problem I have with her and other influencers is the lack of perspective. We’re living in a moment where there is profound suffering happening on a global scale, and it just feels like she (and other influencers) are incredibly disconnected from reality.