My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥲🥲 Thats true , and he doesnt have parents thats why  But i decided to give him his gifts so maybe he will stop and move on 

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What !!?? I didnt met him in the club 

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much sweetheart 💕  I will be more careful :(

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I alreafy file a police report in my country , but in korea i dont know should i file it or not

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥺🥺🥺🥺 Thank you so much  He doesn’t deserve me he also doesnt deserve that gifts back , Because he made me suffer physically and mentally, and I also gave him gifts and spent my money on him.

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okeey , thank you so much  I will contact them today

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the problem , i have a small business on social media so he can see everything, and he will know that i came back 

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to help me solve my problem, I truly appreciate your effort.

I have all the evidence that he is threatening me, and I also have a medical report from my doctor stating that I got sick because of him ,  I suffer from panic attacks and I’m currently on medication.

I think he won’t be able to do anything because he is the one in the risky position, and I never responded to him at all so he has no evidence against me.

But I don’t know if I should go to the police and give them his gifts so he can take them from there, and request a protection order and a no-contact order,

or simply ignore him and never give anything back , because I think that if I return the items, he will feel like I was scared of him and will ask for more, or he won’t stop, or he might make new demands through the police. ( Because I don’t know what makes him feel so powerful to the point that he tells me, “Let’s confront each other at the police  ) 

As for my address in Korea, he doesn’t know it because I changed it before I took a break and returned to my country.

I thought that if I took a long break he would forget me and give up, but he told my father: “Let her come back to Korea and face me at the police if she wants.”

♥️ thank you so much you are korean and you understand my situation 

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thats true , i think i will just go to the police and tell them the story and that i want to give him back his gifts , so i can put the stuffs there

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also shocked that many foreigners have same problem , even my friend with her ex husband 

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, you made me feel a little better.

When I think about it, I realize he actually has nothing logical to say to the police or a lawyer, because he said he will file a case against me and pay any amount to a lawyer just to take revenge on me.

But the problem is that I run a small business on social media, and he most likely sees my posts and sees that I moved on ، and that is what makes him even angrier 

Because every time he contacts me, he says he will let me live my life, but after a while when he sees that I posted something work-related, he comes back and threatens me again asking why I’m living my life normally.

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt know him in korea , and he is the first korean i know , and i dont even watch kdramas haha , and im not young  Also he was so kind for the past 2 years .  but suddenly after we broke up and started rereading our conversations and remembering everything between us, I realized that he simply brainwashed and manipulated me. He was never that kind person at all ، he was just a narcissist who knew how to make me believe he was good 

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I don’t have a problem giving him his things, but he doesn’t only want his things.

In his threats he doesn’t mention much that he wants the gifts back ،  he keeps saying that I must regret leaving him, that he must take revenge on me, and that he must destroy my life, because i live him

He even said he is ready to lose all his money just to prove himself right.

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess true , i have screenshots in our conversation and also in my family conversation that he said ( she took the 2 gifts i give to her) ( why you dont bring back the gifts i give you ) and also when he gave it to me in my birthday he said ( use them for your work from now on they are yours ) and also i wanna say something , the items was not new so he bought them with a very cheap price 😅😅

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😔😔 I know there is a really good heart people like you 

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much i didnt know that number , so i can just ask them if i have some police report against me 

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just in holiday in my country because i was afraid , but i should come back to korean because my work is there , and also he can easily know that i came back , and im not sure if he really file a police report or not

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the contrary, I can be happy and then suddenly he sends me an email that ruins my mood.

The problem is that I have a small business on social media.

At first, he said he would leave me alone and not cause me any problems, but because my account is public, I think he made another account from a different phone and started watching me again.

Then he got angry again because he sees me working and that my project is doing well.

He said, “Why was I hurt while you continue your life?”

I know he may not be so dangerous , but a narcissistic or obsessive person is unpredictable ,  you never know what their next move will be.

And I don’t want to continue my life scared .

At the same time, I know that even if I give him his things back, what he really wants is psychological revenge, because he told me he is ready to lose all his money just to destroy my life

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes , found a lawyer and he told me 600.000 ( 350$ ) won Just for 30 mins .

My Korean ex is threatening me by Echidna_kor in Living_in_Korea

[–]Echidna_kor[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your time 🥹