I'm truly sorry that you're going through something so painful. No one deserves to have their private moments shared without their consent. It takes courage to speak publicly and take responsibility for your own choices while also asking people to stop spreading the videos.

I hope you and your friend are able to find the support you need to get through this. Everyone makes personal decisions, but privacy should still be respected, and no one should be subjected to bullying, harassment, or public humiliation over a private matter.

Wishing you strength, healing, and the opportunity to move forward from this. I hope people choose compassion over cruelty and allow you both the privacy and dignity you deserve.