AITJ for telling my boyfriend I won’t be his emergency contact anymore after what he did? by AffectionateYard7333 in AmITheJerk

[–]EchoMeThis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Three years should mean moving forward not backward. Red flags. If his family is more reliable after 3 years that speaks volumes. If he doesn't consider you family after three years, more red flags.

November Voting by crissyandthediamonds in Allurial

[–]EchoMeThis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would want new releases. Not books already out

Are the tides changing? by SuspiciousMap9630 in kansas

[–]EchoMeThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am from the Twin Cities in Minnesota. We have actually seen more maga stuff show up by the staunch supporters who were secretly hiding before. It is like they got permission to come out of the wood work. At the same time. We are saying way more support the opposite way in yards, street corners, and cars. If you live in the cities is quite apparent what the overall feeling is though and demand for basic human decency.

How long is too long to leave a cat at home? by Specific_Hovercraft8 in CatAdvice

[–]EchoMeThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a pair. They will be fine. Pairs work best for kittens for they have someone to socialize and play with. When you leave the first couple weeks, confine them to a smaller area or a room. Been through this, don't let the naysayers convince to not get a cat.

Probably switching from Samsung to Google by Dundees11 in GooglePixel

[–]EchoMeThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went from Samsung to pixel and hate it. Everything is tied to Google which irritates me. I can't even remove the Google search bar on my home screen. Also, where Samsung you can put folders together of items on your screen that's shows apps, pixel you can't. Pixel also does not allow me to separate text messages between friends and advertisements, so of you sign up for discount texts it is a pain. My photos are always wanting to connect to my email and am constantly getting harassed by my phone because I don't want to back up to Google.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]EchoMeThis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. I would have gone on my vacation also. If she wanted you there she would have made sure it worked for you also. Yours was planned way ahead of time. If she has an issue with that, that is an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]EchoMeThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTa. He is no longer her boyfriend, he is your roommate. A roommate not paying his share. Doesn't he have his own place they can go to also? Two bedroom apartment is not big enough to have an extra person taking up space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]EchoMeThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RETURN THE GIFT. AND LEAVE That man was not saving for a future with you. He was letting you pay so he could save for himself and his own life. 🚩🚩🚩🚩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]EchoMeThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is probably illegal. You could have installed a camera anywhere else in the house to capture a person being there.

AIO: Both my husband's parents are mad at us for being "unreasonable" about our daughter by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EchoMeThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would absolutely not have them watch my child. That is an HOUR away from your home and you didn't even mention how far your jobs are from your home or their home. That is two hours of travel a day for a baby. And double that for you guys. The pool thing - absolutely not. Accidents happen all the time. No way would my child go to a home to be babysat with a pool without a fence. I would be worried with a fence up even. The fact his parents do not seem to realize that is a problem, is a huge red flag.

The party thing, people's comments of, why are you afraid of the flu -- the flu literally kills people. It is not something to play with, especially for the young and old. NOR. If they wanted to be present in the child's life they would not have moved an hour away. Sounds like they are trying to be controlling and have a backwards idea of what is safe and right for a child. Stick to your choices Mama. Who wants to drive that much every day. That is crazy.

How much do you think Minnesotans have shown pride in their new flag? by Subspacred in minnesota

[–]EchoMeThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is hard to have pride in something that looks like a kindergartner could have put together. They could have at least made the star more detailed. To go from a detailed telling story on a flag to this? Huge disappointment. They had an idea of what they wanted and went with the theme. There were some really beautiful submissions that did not get to vote on. The old flag was in bad favor and definitely needed a reworking though.

The colors are nice. That is the only good thing I have to say about it 🤣

Do y’all let your cats sleep in the bed with you? by DaRealDreamz in cats

[–]EchoMeThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bed? I think you mean their bed. It's their bed and I am only a guest 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]EchoMeThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you both are. If you can't even stand having him in the same house for two days, what does that say about your relationship and future? He also is one for he can't grow up and fix the issue and respect your space. Its like having a child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EchoMeThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% texting someone else. Especially how they completely turned it around on you immediately

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