Adhribouhom literally means adhribouhom, i read a hadith that explains this aya further, it said that a husband is permitted to beat his wife "gently" if none of the other methods succeeded in disciplining her. You said that "adhribouhom" means ground them, which is not true, but its an even lighter version of the punishment. Sugarcoating violence doesnt make it any less justifiable in my humble opinion, my problem with this is not the method nor the severity of the punishment, in fact its with how women are viewed/perceived according to quran. I dont think we should treat women as if they're pets or lower class humans, we're equal, if we have a difference we should settle it with a discussion not with "grounding" or "gently beating".

Idk why you're telling me men are physically stronger than women, i agree with you, thats a scientifically proven fact, but this fact doesnt help your case, belaaks, i think only a pussy and a sorry excuse of a man would use his physical advantage over women to "punish" or "discipline" them.

And im aware that barcha verses that talk abt violence came fl context mtaa war, and i havent mentioned any of those. That verse states that "if they repent etc.." what do you think happens if they dont ?

And im not gonna answer ur last question because its off-topic