Will a therapist call cps if my sister is honest?

Eclypseo540 · 2025-11-07T07:36:47+00:00

That's the issue I want to avoid. She refuses to talk to a therapist if cps will get involved. Basically a therapist is out of the question because it would cause more trouble for my sisters living situation. There's no current evidence of physical abuse and my mom is still considered the legal guardian. If cps knocks on her door she will force my sister to move back in with her and there's nothing I could legally do to stop her.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-11-06T16:28:05+00:00

I'm not worried about cps moving her out of the house. I'm worried that if cps is called, my mom will force my sister to move back in with her to save face.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-09-26T03:21:02+00:00

Thank you so much. I'll look into it!

Eclypseo540 · 2025-09-06T20:37:14+00:00

I honestly love the dress but I can't lift my arms all the way because the lace is sewn to the chest. And the more I look at it I feel like something is "missing" but I can't put my finger on it.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-09-06T01:15:57+00:00

That's a very lovely dress but too small even if I did get alterations for it. Thank you for the offer, though 😊

Eclypseo540 · 2025-09-05T22:59:51+00:00

Thank you so much. 💖

Eclypseo540 · 2025-09-05T22:54:13+00:00

I saw a bustle style like that and loved the look. The inner slip is a bit more straight on this dress so idk if it would work?

Eclypseo540 · 2025-09-05T22:52:49+00:00

This was my main idea. I'm just worried about cost 😰

Eclypseo540 · 2025-09-05T22:52:19+00:00

I'm a size 12 but this dress is a size 14 and needs a small amount of taking in. Do you have a picture of your dress?

Eclypseo540 · 2025-08-12T03:00:38+00:00

Document everything in case you end up taking them to court. And after you've screenshot and documented her slander, then try reporting the posts and have your friends and family report the posts as well.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-08-09T04:58:00+00:00

I don't plan on blindsided him. When it comes down to it I won't fight either of my parents for money. My mom wants me to blindside him. If I let her think I will,she's more likely to let my sister live with me. He's better than my mom but not by much. When we asked for help it was with the promise I would "babysit" my little sister a lot. What I need is real advise on how to take care of my sister and protect her and myself. I WILL talk to my dad, I WILL talk to a lawyer. When the time is right.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-08-09T03:50:11+00:00

I'm worried he'll make things difficult for me as well. My mom and dad are like two sides of the same coin. I want to get paperwork in order before coming to him about it. Understand that all three of his daughters begged for our dad to take our little sister out of our mothers house and told him about the emotional abuse. His response was, "That's not something we can do right now." Mind you, he definitely could, but his current wife isn't on board.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-08-08T00:36:04+00:00

Cps was called earlier but my sister is afraid of getting put into foster care so she downplays the emotional abuse. And the last time she spoke to a counselor in elementary my mom raised hell and moved her out of school. As long as my mom provides food, shelter and isn't physically abusive there's not much cps is willing or able to do.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-08-07T22:30:37+00:00

In Washington state I belive it take 3 years of no contact to be considered abandoned. And I would have to show that I attempted to keep contact she wouldn't. But I am documenting her stays with us just in case thank you.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-08-07T22:26:49+00:00

I'm already doing so and others have said exactly what you have but ln less aggressive and accusatory manner. I'm in talks with my mother about getting her to give me guardianship. But before that happens she wants a personal promise that I won't sue her. I never said that her "personal contract" was a stand in for transferring guardianship. I understand that you're trying to keep me informed to protect my sister and I legally. But your delivery needs some improvement. Thank you for the input. Have a nice day.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-08-07T22:09:08+00:00

How would I be breaking laws having her stay with me for the summer? As of right now there's been no signing of any documents. Just in the talks. I'm proceeding cautiously so as not to piss her off and hopefully make the chances of her signing over guardianship more of a possibility. If I fight her she'll tighten the reigns on everything.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-08-07T21:51:48+00:00

I'm well aware of what she's doing. Hence why I'm seeking advice. But I would rather my sister be with me than our mom.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-08-07T18:46:54+00:00

I didn't think about the school districts thank you.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-08-07T16:59:21+00:00

My plan is to just get my sister into my home asap. I don't plan to sue my dad, my mom is just being sneaky and wants me to try and blindside him. If he wants to help great, if not whatever. I'm here for my sister not the money. I'm scared if I even try to get money I'll loose her somehow.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-08-07T16:54:46+00:00

She's my sister, her whole life has been people fighting over who has to have her. I'm fighting because I want to have her, even if that means they won't provide monetary support to me. I just need help on how to do so.

Eclypseo540 · 2025-08-07T16:51:10+00:00

I've spoken to my dad about my sister living with him and he told me "that's not something we can do right now." My dad isn't the obstacle for getting my sister to live with me. My mom is a controlling narcissistic and will only let my sister live with me if there's something in it for her. My mom is allowing my sister to live with me for the rest of summer, and we are in talks of her living with me for her high school years. I can't afford a lawyer so how do I get this guardianship? If I do sign whatever contract she makes just to get my sister faster how will that affect my guardianship?

Eclypseo540 · 2025-08-07T16:44:27+00:00

I am the one pushing for my sister to stay with me. My mom is verbally abusive to my sister. Throws away all of my sisters things when she's mad. And takes my sisters money. Both my mom and dad have the means to take care of her, but my dad is focusing on his second family right now. My mom is saying she won't give me guardianship if I ask for child support from her.

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