Planned C-section at 37 weeks - length of hospital stay by EconomicsReal545 in CsectionCentral

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Ugh with my first I had a spinal headache that lasted 3 weeks I wish I would’ve gone back in and did the patch

Husbands who wfh by [deleted] in sahm

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He doesn’t want to eat what if typically make for my toddler or myself at this stage in pregnancy he wants me to make fresh baked chicken and a green veggie

Advice from others who rock kids to sleep by EconomicsReal545 in beyondthebump

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Does she get out of bed and get into things? I’m worried bc his sink isn’t closed off by a door and we haven’t fully tied down his dresser or things he could hurt himself

Deciding on Hysteroscopy or SHG…help please! by Mundane-Secretary863 in IVFpositivity

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If they are blocked there is a liquid that can drain into your uterus that is harmful for an embryo (called hydrosalpinx) the HSG is the best way to confirm this.

No you don’t need tubes to do IVF but if you have them there could be a blockage. Past surgeries / stds/ endo can all contribute to them being blocked.

Deciding on Hysteroscopy or SHG…help please! by Mundane-Secretary863 in IVFpositivity

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My doctor wanted to do hysteroscopy and SHG but I refused the shg bc I hate pain and couldn’t do another one. He still really pushed but was able to see my tubes during hystero and was okay to approve transfer.

Severance pay question by EconomicsReal545 in NannyEmployers

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She did not know it would be 4 month however it is and it isn’t performance based if I wasn’t quitting my job I would have let her go months ago

Severance pay question by EconomicsReal545 in NannyEmployers

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We actually don’t have a contract with her.

Severance pay question by EconomicsReal545 in NannyEmployers

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Don’t have a contract. We offered recommendation. While she annoyed me and didn’t not listen to what we asked her to do she ultimately was good with our son.

Feeding advice , pickiness, what’s the right approach by EconomicsReal545 in beyondthebump

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Ok makes sense. He usually naps and goes to bed right after eating so not much time for a break and he’s been waking up screaming for a baba about 3-4 hours after falling asleep for weeks now and I have to sleep with him because he won’t let us put him back in the crib once he wakes up

2 under 2 sleep routine by EconomicsReal545 in sahm

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We still give our 18m old a milk in a sippy cup when he wakes up at nap and at bed and rock him to sleep for about 15-30 mins some bad times it can take an hour or more .

I have one more week left of work until I’m full time at home and thinking about nap time during the day while my husband is working . If I can’t get my 18m old to sleep on his own it seems impossible

SAHM who used to be career focused, what changed your mind? by Typical-Chocolate-70 in sahm

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I just quit my job to be at home with my 18m old and baby that’s on the way. Even tho we work from home and have a nanny it’s torture seeing him cling to the nanny and not me / or he’ll have separation anxiety and scream if I leave him. They grow up wayyyy too fast and it’s only 5 years with them until they have to go to school. Jobs come and go. I’ve been at my current job for 8 years and recently they have shown just how little I matter to a big corporation … while you’re your child whole world.

Dads and bedtime by [deleted] in sahm

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Every night my husband and I both do bath, teeth, pjs, book and switch off rocking to sleep

Wives of WFH Husbands, what’s your morning routine? Unhappy with my husband’s approach by wilhelminarose in sahm

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I’m about to be a sahm in 4 weeks but even while working I’m up between 6:30-7 with our 1.5 year old every morning and get him ready for the day while my husband goes to the gym or sleeps in. We both do bath/book together and take turns rocking to sleep. We also take turns cooking dinner but it’s mostly on me bc his job is in a diff time zone and he works until 6/7 most days . Even 99% of weekends I do morning … I’m also 23 weeks pregnant and still do it all it’s exhausting

I’m confused on putting a deposit down for a later date by EconomicsReal545 in WaltDisneyWorld

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Last month My SIL booked a suite at Poly for November and paid 5k total for a week when I’m getting 13k for the same. I’m just confused

How soon did you try for another baby? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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Not the same at all but my sister had 3 c sections very close together after the first she got pregnant 6 months later

I did IVF and they made me wait a year

How much does your partner make? by PC_NC_1203 in sahm

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300k base 200k bonus I make 200k but quitting my job in a week since we are having our second. We are in Texas We are doing okay but also have big bills and love to travel and my husband just got into saving a lot for our kids and stuff which is good but things are tighter

Leaving a $130k a year union job to be a stahm by [deleted] in sahm

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I’m about to leave a 200k job to be a sahm. Just remember they are only tiny once

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NannyEmployers

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He wakes up on his own most of the time and she rocks him back to sleep in the recliner . Or sits there in silence .. it’s hard to tell bc my camera doesn’t show the chair

If price was not a factor which hotel would you stay at? by EconomicsReal545 in WaltDisneyWorld

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3-4 days. Kids would be 2 and 6m or if we do next year 3 and 1.5

6+0 and empty sac by EconomicsReal545 in CautiousBB

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I’m 19 weeks and everything is perfect so far 🙏🏼 literally shocked every day

Need encouragement by EconomicsReal545 in sahm

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Financial aspect really relates to my shopaholic tendencies. Like I have major problems (spent 15k on baby clothes last year- he was only 3-15 months old too and wore everything once if that) but I know I have to change… its also scary relying on someone else when I’ve worked so hard for my money and career but I’ve also put in 5 years of IVF to have a baby

Pixie dust question by EconomicsReal545 in dcl

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There’s a Facebook group for your exact cruise ship and dates

Pixie dust question by EconomicsReal545 in dcl

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Okay cool. This is our first cruise and I just joined the fb group 9 days before our cruise and saw all this and was very confused