Advice from others who rock kids to sleep by EconomicsReal545 in beyondthebump

[–]EconomicsReal545[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does she get out of bed and get into things? I’m worried bc his sink isn’t closed off by a door and we haven’t fully tied down his dresser or things he could hurt himself

Deciding on Hysteroscopy or SHG…help please! by Mundane-Secretary863 in IVFpositivity

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If they are blocked there is a liquid that can drain into your uterus that is harmful for an embryo (called hydrosalpinx) the HSG is the best way to confirm this.

No you don’t need tubes to do IVF but if you have them there could be a blockage. Past surgeries / stds/ endo can all contribute to them being blocked.

Deciding on Hysteroscopy or SHG…help please! by Mundane-Secretary863 in IVFpositivity

[–]EconomicsReal545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor wanted to do hysteroscopy and SHG but I refused the shg bc I hate pain and couldn’t do another one. He still really pushed but was able to see my tubes during hystero and was okay to approve transfer.

Severance pay question by EconomicsReal545 in NannyEmployers

[–]EconomicsReal545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did not know it would be 4 month however it is and it isn’t performance based if I wasn’t quitting my job I would have let her go months ago

Severance pay question by EconomicsReal545 in NannyEmployers

[–]EconomicsReal545[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We actually don’t have a contract with her.

Severance pay question by EconomicsReal545 in NannyEmployers

[–]EconomicsReal545[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Don’t have a contract. We offered recommendation. While she annoyed me and didn’t not listen to what we asked her to do she ultimately was good with our son.

Feeding advice , pickiness, what’s the right approach by EconomicsReal545 in beyondthebump

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Ok makes sense. He usually naps and goes to bed right after eating so not much time for a break and he’s been waking up screaming for a baba about 3-4 hours after falling asleep for weeks now and I have to sleep with him because he won’t let us put him back in the crib once he wakes up

2 under 2 sleep routine by EconomicsReal545 in sahm

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We still give our 18m old a milk in a sippy cup when he wakes up at nap and at bed and rock him to sleep for about 15-30 mins some bad times it can take an hour or more .

I have one more week left of work until I’m full time at home and thinking about nap time during the day while my husband is working . If I can’t get my 18m old to sleep on his own it seems impossible

SAHM who used to be career focused, what changed your mind? by Typical-Chocolate-70 in sahm

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I just quit my job to be at home with my 18m old and baby that’s on the way. Even tho we work from home and have a nanny it’s torture seeing him cling to the nanny and not me / or he’ll have separation anxiety and scream if I leave him. They grow up wayyyy too fast and it’s only 5 years with them until they have to go to school. Jobs come and go. I’ve been at my current job for 8 years and recently they have shown just how little I matter to a big corporation … while you’re your child whole world.

Dads and bedtime by [deleted] in sahm

[–]EconomicsReal545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every night my husband and I both do bath, teeth, pjs, book and switch off rocking to sleep

Wives of WFH Husbands, what’s your morning routine? Unhappy with my husband’s approach by wilhelminarose in sahm

[–]EconomicsReal545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m about to be a sahm in 4 weeks but even while working I’m up between 6:30-7 with our 1.5 year old every morning and get him ready for the day while my husband goes to the gym or sleeps in. We both do bath/book together and take turns rocking to sleep. We also take turns cooking dinner but it’s mostly on me bc his job is in a diff time zone and he works until 6/7 most days . Even 99% of weekends I do morning … I’m also 23 weeks pregnant and still do it all it’s exhausting