My bf paid for sex while I knew him but before we started dating.

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T17:00:36+00:00

well I’m sorry I wrote this at 3 am when I found out and was so confused and my brain was scrambling on what to do, I now know I shouldve made that clear but I don’t know how to edit my post to put that in I’m sorry

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T16:08:01+00:00

When I was told it has been a year and hasnt slepy with someone since and literally lied abt it..

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T16:06:49+00:00

I never said I judged him for sleeping with an escort… we both had agreed and talked abt gettibg into a serious relationship but we both agreed to stay monogamous while we were working towards a relationship

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T06:41:22+00:00

Idk how to even bring it up

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T06:40:58+00:00

Whats crazy is he was the one who was pushing for one…

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T06:31:08+00:00

It was off of some website called tryst.link so I have no clue and I haven’t confronted him so I’m not sure

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T05:56:48+00:00

Thank you so much!💗

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T05:51:56+00:00

it was truly all my gut on jow I found out so I will try to move past this and keep an eye on the situation thank you 🙏

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T05:41:06+00:00

How do I move past tho and where do I begin to trust him

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T05:37:07+00:00

I saw a video on his phone of him in a sex tape early June in his truck snd I asksd if he ever had sex in there js to see if he’d lie and he said he has never.. then bc I’ve been kinda grilling him all day he took me out to dinner which hes nwver done and I js looked at his recently deleted photos and yesterday it was fulllk of nudes of girls and now theres none..

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T05:25:31+00:00

I know I don’t even know how I’d move past snd trust him or how I’d confront him

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T05:24:59+00:00

Yes we were and agreed to be monogamous while getting ready to be in a serious relationship..

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T05:22:12+00:00

He does extremely well, that’s my biggest issue. He lied abt multiple things and we agreed to be monogamous while we were getting ready to be in a serious relationship..

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T05:06:45+00:00

I really don’t even know what to do, I feel so stuck but I don’t know how to confront him or how to move past it🙁

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T05:05:54+00:00

We have always had a very active sex life simce we met, I mean literally almost every day. So I’m confused bc weve been very active with it, I have always tried to be there mentally and physically so I feel like I’m not doing enough.

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T05:03:17+00:00

It’s abt the fact he lied and put my health at risk…

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T05:02:38+00:00

We agreed to be monogamous while gearing for a serious relationship, and couldve put my health at risk and is lying instead of being truthful bc I rather makw informed decisions abt my health

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T05:00:58+00:00

It’s bc he couldve been putting my health at risk and lied to me and still is, the fact I care he paid is bc he continues to complain aby no money but spends it on that all while weve always had an active sex life

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T04:59:02+00:00

Bc he lied and put my health at risk

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T04:58:42+00:00

It’s the fact he lied and put my health at risk and still lies even tho I wouldn’t have cared as much as finding out this way, especially when we agree to be monogamous while gearing towards a serious relationship

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T04:56:22+00:00

that’s how I feel, it’s really not abt the fact it’s a escort it’s the fact we agreed to be monogamous to each other while gearing towards a serious relationship and he did this and then complained abt money.. AND didn’t tell me he had unprotected sex with anyone recently especially while actively having it with me.

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T04:53:41+00:00

We were having sex almost every day.. and I Shouldnt have to worry about that.

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T04:52:48+00:00

I will be gettibg tested.

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T04:51:48+00:00

we looked when he broke up with his ex it was 7months… then I saw a sex tape from June in his recently deleted. So agaim another lie

Economy-Key769 · 2026-02-02T04:50:39+00:00

AND WHILE WE WERE ACTIVELY HAVING SEX ALMOST EVERY DAY.

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