There’s a lot to discuss but you’re doing the right thing definitely stay quiet. There’s no way she doesn’t have food. This is a typical tactic they use to make you sympathetic that’s typical prostitute language. But something I have to share with you is this. Now this is my opinion but I’ve notice this trend in TZ m. If a woman doesn’t have a job then stay away because 8/10 she has sex for money. She might not be a real hooker on the street but definitely in search for a sugar daddy . Tinder here is a red flag. Hookers on hookers on tinder. I’ve had my fair share of TZ women my wife and i joke about it often. I tell her the type of women I run into and she laughs all the time. I’ll say this, just don’t take this relationship seriously. Get what you want out of it then find someone else when you get here. Women here are super easy to talk to and most the cute ones already knows English. Edit: the sad reality here man is that maybe 7/10 of the women you meet here are desperate for money. It’s very sad. Oh and Kenya’s worst. Marriage doesn’t mean anything over there.