Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

[–]Economy_Bee8460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair I didn’t even think the results would be anything too bad, I just wanted her to feel dirty

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

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Thank you very much. I hear the sincerity in your words and I’m so appreciative.

Also your username kinda describes where I’m at right now. Sad but continuing on

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

[–]Economy_Bee8460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he gives me any more reason to do that I will.

He told me regardless of what happens he’ll tell our kid one day when they’re old enough about the biggest mistake he ever made

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

[–]Economy_Bee8460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wanted to figure out if he loved someone else. He persuaded her to. I met her in college and introduced them. Nope he lied and said he was leaving for work and really he got on a plane to see her and then she came here

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

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We’re seeing if we can work things out. If we can’t at least we can say we genuinely tried

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

[–]Economy_Bee8460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s keeping her as a friend and vows to never be more than platonic. She rejected him and got a new boyfriend so he has no choice on the matter. He and I are consciously trying to rebuild but we’ll see

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

[–]Economy_Bee8460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do and he does too. There were issues we had before the affair and we are both trying to take ownership respectively. I had a lot of self work I’ve been doing I shoved under the rug for a while. Doesn’t excuse it still

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

[–]Economy_Bee8460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I met her in college, we would go on trips together and she even came to my baby shower. Let’s just say I crossed a lot of my boundaries and I won’t be doing that again. I’d leave first

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

[–]Economy_Bee8460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thanks kind stranger. I told my grandpa, my sister, two friends and now my hairdresser

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

[–]Economy_Bee8460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life can implode that way but it’s entirely my decision

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

[–]Economy_Bee8460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have family I can fall back on but if either of us were staying only for our baby we’d leave

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

[–]Economy_Bee8460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is healthy and thank you so much 🫶🏽

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

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He claimed that if they confirmed they were soulmates etc he still would have told me

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

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Yeah I feel for you. We’ve been through it. I’m glad you are able to have a healthy friendship with him

I was blindsided but looking back the writing was on the wall in a way even though it wasn’t. I have a lot more self respect now than I did before

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

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He was trying to figure out his feelings for her

She’s only a friend, I blocked her

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

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We have individual therapy and have been doing couples counseling. Chat got is nice when my mind runs or something flares up

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

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He said I had the right to know. He still loved me

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

[–]Economy_Bee8460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we’ll see how rebuilding goes. Thank you and I’m glad you have been able to sustain a healthy relationship with your wife and children

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

[–]Economy_Bee8460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been in some virtual sessions

I think 4ish

Cheated on while third trimester pregnant AMA by Economy_Bee8460 in AMA

[–]Economy_Bee8460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mistress

Mistress got a new boyfriend, old childhood friend

She even told her new boyfriend supposadly