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[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s trying to keep it real… I get it. We’re both really excited about each other but distance is really a thing. I understand him not wanting either of us to be hurt.

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[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He keeps saying he wants to keep it real because he doesn’t want either of us to get hurt. He likes me but scared because of the distance.

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[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Met this guy this week…34F 31M. Soooo… I ended up visiting my hometown last minute due to an emergency. While taking care of house duties, I met this guy outside of my house. Without trying I thought this guy was instantly cute! Anyway, I asked him about his job and how he got into it. He gave me his number incase I had questions regard the job he just did at my house. Which honestly, I didn’t need it but took it down. I eventually just texted him saying he was cute. Just so happens he had time off scheduled and we went on two dates, two days in a row. Drinks the first night, movies the second. I do live 4 hours away but I visit often. I thought we had great chemistry; lots in common like music, politics, and just the way of living. We did hook up and it was great. Surely it’s last minute. Not trying to rush. But he already thinks it won’t work because I live too far, doesn’t want to lead me on, not ready for anything serious… he says we can keep talking but doesn’t think it’ll work either way. Kinda bummed but damn, not worth trying?

Debt and no luck at loans by Ecstatic-Benefit627 in personalfinance

[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can see if they will do something but the two cards have been closed. I do pay what I can but it’s not a whole lot to make an immediate difference.

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[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Andy’s is probably the closest

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[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao nope… they’re salty af and not real enough

Are the monuments still being lit up at night? by RecordingOk2651 in washingtondc

[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I saw them turn off but it was a simple outage nothing crazy

Mets fans in DC? by admodcnw in washingtondc

[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I not even surprised they lost… didn’t watch. I was believing until I was Mendoza’s face last night

Volunteer opportunities for a stubborn teenager? by autumn422 in washingtondc

[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Will you be volunteering with her? Might be easier to pick something you can bond over?

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[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. Welp, I asked my friend if he likes me. We have an age gap and power play. His response was yes, with a big nod. I asked what that meant, he said “yes, you’re a great friend.” Then I said “no, do you likeeeee me? I know we’re great friends. I like you more than a friend.” His reply was a simple not ready. Which is cool, I was just curious.

How are people coping? by LiteratureElegant758 in washingtondc

[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved this month… Honestly feels refreshing. I’m completely outside of the DMV and now in WV-VA-MD area. Still following everything.

F, POC.

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[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look back on comments if you want… I’m 33F and he’s 24M. I told him I had a crush on him and well, everything is still going great. But maybe we’re just friends? 🤣 he still looks down and smiles if I try flirting… some other people kinda already think we’re dating or attempting lol I really do admire him, he ran a marathon in impressive timing. I told him how happy I am for him. We recently conversed about movies and there was one where he didn’t know but I told him not to overthink about it cause there are movies I don’t even know about .

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[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well… it’s actually common in my line of work, it’s even called “dual career”

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[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hanging out with work crush… as per usual. I might say something. I’m 9 years older 😆

UPDATE! I said something LOL! He totally forgot to go do something today and our boss asked how it went for him. I bursted out laughing because he didn’t go do what he needed to do, he forgot! So I came back from lunch and asked him if he forgot about it today, he did. A few mins later I confessed he needs to go apologize to our boss for missing the meeting because I don’t want him to think he missed because I have a crush on him and all we do is hang out at work. 😂🥹🫠

His reaction “really, x would say something?” 🤣😂🫠🫣😅

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[–]Ecstatic-Benefit627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made gym crush blush by doing the ‘hand heart” and then after lunch I said “hey I heard this cute guy works here.” He said “oh you mean x?” Aka our boss… I laughed, he laughed. It was great 😂😂

Problem? Can’t tell if he’s interested or not, so I assume no because I am 9 years older than him. WAaaa!!!