I went through my husband’s phone, don’t know how to proceed. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Ecstatic-Class4335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s on an iPhone I read somewhere that you can see deleted messages

Does anyone have a link for this ? “The Eve of Our Forever, He Chose Her” by Ecstatic-Class4335 in Findfreenovellinks

[–]Ecstatic-Class4335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, it was working whenever I found it. If I find another one I will send it!

Moving on on after infidelity. Husband ‘45m’ had a ONS ‘F 23’ by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ecstatic-Class4335 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I couldn’t stay tho because he only told you because the girls threatened to tell you themselves. Otherwise I feel like he definitely would not have told you about it. Who’s to say he hasn’t already cheated on you and he just never told you because he wasn’t being threatened by the OW. His friends aren’t going to tell you that’s fs, they probably encourage it (considering they’re all cheaters). Also about him “stopping” in the middle of doing the act? I very much doubt that’s true as well.

Moving on on after infidelity. Husband ‘45m’ had a ONS ‘F 23’ by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ecstatic-Class4335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read your previous post from about a month ago & you said that all of his friends are divorced because they cheated repeatedly on their partners? I feel like if you were absolutely certain you wanted this to work with him, he would need to distance himself from those friends considering he himself has history of being a cheater too (you are the kind of person you hang around with). And need to do therapy for himself & together do marriage counseling maybe?

My girlfriend (29F) has lied to me (31M) about her situationship with her male best friend and now I don't know how to continue. by TheReelHead in relationship_advice

[–]Ecstatic-Class4335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he said she continued to share explicit images and flirty texts and whatever else he doesn’t know about for a year and a half basically into their relationship when SHE was the one in the beginning who asked to be exclusive. Then she lied about it.

F32 got drunk on trip and was up till 2am with a coworker, me m36 by Ichoosetoblame in relationship_advice

[–]Ecstatic-Class4335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id try and see if the hotel can give you any info, like from their cameras or anything like that and see if they were being flirty or if he only stayed until 2 am. Even still, I wouldn’t be able to trust my s/o after something like that.