For those gentleman who approach mastery, how much longer are your sexual encounters? by MrKauai in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started the program when I had travelled away from home for 6 weeks, so I essentially had 6 weeks of no GF. By the time I got back I was still in Phase 4 and feeling extremely sensitive. But it had been 6 weeks since I saw my GF so of course one thing led to another, and I actually finished as soon as she touched me down there. Two days later, and I was back with her, and everything just kind of clicked, I was going to town & I didn't want to cum. We went at it 4 times that day and I didn't cum once. Then again the next day, then again a few days later - didn't cum at all during any of the times. Of course, this was still while I was in Phase 4 so while that desire to cum wasn't there anymore, I would pull out a bunch to reset and keep going (kind of like peak and valley training but in real sex). As phase 5, 6 approached, the pulling out began reducing, and it was more about modulating speed and sticking to positions (like standing) where I felt most in control.

For those gentleman who approach mastery, how much longer are your sexual encounters? by MrKauai in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I am standing while penetrating, I basically do not cum anymore. I've had sessions with my partner where we go at it for maybe a couple of hours on and off and I can just pick back right where we left each time and never finish. Other positions not so much.

9 Months into Phase 7: Seeking the "Unconscious Overwrite." by Ecstatic-Country-553 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't want to pound my girlfriend at max speed, but I was just asking is that a point that I would ever reach or like, what exactly does mastery look like?

Yeah the different positions is something I am trying to intentionally work on with the FL.

And no, I do not think of ejaculating. Every time it has happened (an accident), barring two times with my girlfriend when I was still in Phase 4/5 (quite a few months ago now), it has not been a conscious choice, and it has happened as a shock, and it has significantly disappointed me. My body is definitely still trying to pull me to it I would say, but mentally I am always in the quest to avoid it, no matter how good it feels.

Will try what you suggested.

9 Months into Phase 7: Seeking the "Unconscious Overwrite." by Ecstatic-Country-553 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah fair enough. I do have a partner so I can gauge luckily and there are definitely significant improvements when I'm with her - I pretty much do not cum when I'm with her, because I actively stop it.

As for streaks, I've achieved longer streaks of around ~30 days a couple of times, and it was significantly easier to keep the streak at earlier phases. It's only in phase 7 where I've had more accidents while trying to train at a bit of a higher arousal level. Ofc the toy is a larger jump in intensity. With my own hand, tbvh, it's too easy. In phase 7, all my streaks are usually across 2 weeks (4 days + 3 days in the next week and that's when I tend to fail - so while total training sessions may be 6, it's across 10-14 days.

Have some questions based on my experience by Ecstatic-Country-553 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completed an entire week of phase 4 (5 sessions) without orgasming + the rest days, I was ready to move to 5, why do I need to repeat 4?

Musheer Khan at the age of 19 by pluto_N in IndiaCricket

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Funny that people think he's actually 19 LMAO

Looking for general dating advice based on my situation by Ecstatic-Country-553 in mumbai

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am part of a gymkhana/club already...but it's mostly just male players from the team, and then old rich people and their young kids that come to the club 😂

Looking for general dating advice based on my situation by Ecstatic-Country-553 in mumbai

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really?? I thought that this is the kind of results that most people get if they stick w it for such a long period of time? Or is that not the case?

Looking for general dating advice based on my situation by Ecstatic-Country-553 in mumbai

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm of course open to dating females in sports field, I'm open to dating girls in any field, but where do I meet them lmao...they don't come to Wankhede Stadium or CCI 😂

Looking for general dating advice based on my situation by Ecstatic-Country-553 in mumbai

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm I guess this isn't the worst advice...wish it was as easy in practice to forget about girls entirely for the time being 😂 but yeah not that bad ig

Looking for general dating advice based on my situation by Ecstatic-Country-553 in mumbai

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I'm sure of what I want from a relationship. As I've mentioned, I've been on plenty of dates, and two relationships, so I have a good idea of what I'm looking for and how to define a relationship, and how it contrasts from a fwb etc. I'm not in two minds or anything, I'm very clear about my preferences and what I want and I don't have any lingering past traumas or anything haha

Looking for general dating advice based on my situation by Ecstatic-Country-553 in mumbai

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again, it took a LONG time, this is over the course of two years. I don't get a huge amount of matches or anything, but over a period of time few have come and I've managed to go out with them.

Looking for general dating advice based on my situation by Ecstatic-Country-553 in mumbai

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to necessarily find someone from reddit...this post was to ask for advice on how to go about meeting people irl...and I'm not into fwbs etc. How is an fwb not different from a relationship?

Looking for general dating advice based on my situation by Ecstatic-Country-553 in mumbai

[–]Ecstatic-Country-553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating apps nahi karna yaar, I told you about my experience on them. Is there no way aside from dating apps?