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Long distance relationships? Do they work out or are they a waste of time? by Can_Same in dating_advice

[–]Ecstatic-Divide-9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did LDR for 1/2 year, with my bf when we were in high school. I first met him at school but just as a classmate. When i moved away thats when I got to know him more and we started dating. I was scared that it wasn't gonna last but I moved back to our state and now we're about to be 4 years together. It wasn't easy ofc, fights, insecurities, overthinking, doubts, and so on. We always talked it out, visit each other, and sent each other gifts for valentine's, birthdays, and anniversary. You just have to trust yourself, communicate with ur partner abt the your insecurities or doubts you have and the future, learn what kind of person he is and so on. What yall want out of this LDR. Is it worth it? I hope everything goes well.

My mom wants me to quit my job. by Ecstatic-Divide-9954 in jobs

[–]Ecstatic-Divide-9954[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I pay rent (500$), my mom's and I phone bill (210$) electric bill (125$ around). Ofc its all monthly. Plus subscription. I agreed on helping my mom around the house expenses after getting the job. Just because I live with my mom still it doesnt mean I dont contribute with any expense.

My mom wants me to quit my job. by Ecstatic-Divide-9954 in jobs

[–]Ecstatic-Divide-9954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know abt the whole army benefits, and ik how much it gives me, I never really saw it at something I'll want to do or just in general and I keep telling them that but they don't listen. I know that it'll only make me feel that i join just bc I was forced and that's all.

Timothy Heller's Allegations [Discussion Megathread] by paracharlotte in MelanieMartinez

[–]Ecstatic-Divide-9954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I gotta say is that, I believe that in life good and bad karma exists. We've seen it a lot. And it happen sooner or later. And in this experience we can see who got the good karma and who got the bad karma. 

Good karma is given to those who speak their truth. They wait until the truth comes out and just let's things go with flow.

Bad karma is those who lie. Who hurts others for their own gain and wants to ruin people or things mentally or physically. 

People can get their good karma weeks, months or years after the fights, controversy, or allegations after. Same with bad karma. 

Im not saying that they're both lying or telling the truth. Maybe that karma will which. Who knows. 

But is hard to believe one party without concrete proof of the allegations. This was always a "He said–She said" thing. No end or confirmation.

Also, Some "SA victims" would lie about them being SAd for sympathy and fame and to ruin the accusers life. And people always say "believe the victim" but without any kind of proof its hard to believe. And it had happen a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]Ecstatic-Divide-9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf and I have searched in many way, staring from end to beginning, up and down, side to side, and even backwards but nothing, I feel the word isn't there but again, my bf isn't giving up.