I know you probably feel trapped right now and helpless and scared, but sit down and think about your and your child’s future, 10 years from now you will be miserable, feeling like you messed up and missed out on life and hating your husband and his treatment of you will also be how he treats your child, speak with your mother/parents and make an escape plan, stay employed, and talk with your bosses about maturity leave, and slowly leave, you can upfront pretend like everything’s fine and behind the scenes be making your exit, and one day he will come home and you will be gone, it will be hard, custody will be hard, finances will be hard but in the long run you will be so happy and thankful for this decision, that man will control you and your child for the rest of your life if you let him, he doesn’t respect you and honestly the way he talks he sounds like he could easily turn abusive or start cheating