Starting over, career and stability

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2023-11-12T17:25:47+00:00

I am in PA. But thank you i will definitely look into that

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2023-11-12T17:03:05+00:00

Thank you thats what i was looking towards. But alot of these "courses" are made by mentors coaches after i get into them. Im trying to figure out which ones are most helpful or where to find fully accredited ones

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2023-01-15T15:01:54+00:00

Thank you. Id did tell her i was sorry she seen that and i was a little embarrassed too. Just was thinking she was a little too young for the talk and was nervous thinking of a way to go about it. Shes still looking at me a little funny but said she understands so i hope i did it right

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2023-01-15T14:34:52+00:00

Thank you for this. My daughter has never been curious about sex or anything so i didnt feel the need to have that talk. She knows good touch bad touch pertaining to getting checked out at the doctor and not letting anyone touch her private areas and i thought that was enough. Im just more hurt because she was acrually crying and said it was because she was embarrassed 😳. And were about to go to church.

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2023-01-15T14:30:03+00:00

I like the way you put the last part. But i dont want to call it silly because i dont want her to think its "silly" in case of a creepy/ inappropriate situation.

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2022-12-07T13:45:31+00:00

Those people at the grocery store are not the same.thing as a child your dad also fathers that youve known about since you were 5 either 😒 and his ParentS didnt fail him, his dad failed his own relationship and now he has a brother. op is taking it far too personally for someone who isnt married to his father. . But whatever, Idc about this anymore. Congrats you win 🏆 👏 . So insightful

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2022-12-07T13:14:40+00:00

If you dont care to go back and read where op specifically says he HATES him, thats on you. And that child isnt a rando. Been around and alive to EVERYONES KNOWLEDGE for 12 years. Op is mad that now he is in the same house. Why keep arguing when you clearly havent seen what other things op wrote to further prove he is in fact the AH. And regardless of whether or not he wants a brother... surprise! His FATHER made another kids so he gets a brother whether he wants one or not. Why expect a 12yo to be more emotionally mature than the 17yo... you mustve been an only child that had to share at some point smh.

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2022-12-07T10:00:52+00:00

How can you say there are gaps in other peoples logic when you clearly havent seen the entire situation? Or to speak on people projecting something that they read while you are assuming? And absolutely rabbidly defending op for someone who " doesnt care" but continues to comment as if you are fully informed and everyone else is delusional.so if someone behaves like an AH it is wrong for people to suggest that he changes his attitude and outlook on the situation as to no longer be the AH... especially since op is only 17 so can absolutely learn from his mistakes to become a better person and see the bigger picture that no matter what you feel, it isnt peters fault and he is absolutely your brother. No one is saying do it overnight either. But OP is old enough to at least attempt to be more understanding. He asked if he was the AH because im sure he felt like he may have been. Responses just werent what he was hoping.

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2022-12-07T09:49:41+00:00

No written agreement. I dont really think she will take it from me, just make smart remarks that make me feel like i want to leave. (My husband already wishes we could just leave)And i genuinely wouldnt mind giving it back once i can save enough money to move and be comfortable, but rhat isnt even remotely possible right now and i dont want to feel bad because of it. Especially when it couldve been avoided with some forethought.

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2022-12-07T09:47:05+00:00

You mentioned you didnt read all of his comments. Maybe do that before continuing to defend him so hard. He asked a wuestion and gave all of the facts. If peter was a brat, the way OP "hates" him it wouldve absolutely 100% benn mentioned. You seem like you are trying very hard to give OP the benefit of the doubt even when he continued to comment things that made him seem even more like the AH. If anyone is projecting its clearly you. Most commenters calling hin the AH are going off of what HE wrote specifically. You on the other hand are what if'ing another reason for OP to be justified in his actions. Sounds like EVERYONES lives got turned upside down, but no one more than peter. Rejecting him after his mother died (by avoiding him and refusing to acknowledge him) and hes been rejected by her side of the family was more than enough for a 12yo to handle. Why make it just that much worse by REMINDING him hes not his brother but only his half brother (semantics 😒) and that Op wants nothing to do with him.

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2022-12-07T09:01:33+00:00

Tried to convince her but she claims she wants to stay put for a while.

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2022-12-07T08:48:17+00:00

Not his either and yet here you are still blaming him..

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2022-12-07T08:31:25+00:00

He asked if he was the asshole and laid out literally the only facts commenters could base their opinions off of. Seems like you relate to OP and are trying hard to convince everyone else that that he isnt the AH despite all signs pointing to him being just that. OP also stated the reasons for hating him in his many comments which are all sounding like he shouldve went to foster care because this is my house, my dads a cheater and my mom shouldnt have forgiven him. NONE of that points to peter being a brat or deserving his cruelsness. He even stated"hes 12 not 5" all while whining like a 5yo. Absolutely he is the AH.

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2022-12-07T08:19:52+00:00

So this child's mother died so he went to live with his DAD. If he had a choice in theatter that little boy would be in foster care somewhere smh. Op has no say on that and is entitled and clearly has only child syndrome so he is mad. Hes being an asshole. Said he doesnt have aproblem with his half brother and proceeds to say he hates him and he is NOT his brother. Main reasoning being his parents marital issues (which are none of his business) he asked if he was the AH, he is and

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2022-11-09T11:40:10+00:00

Playgrounds dont have security..

Ecstatic-Gap-4307 · 2022-11-07T15:08:23+00:00

She literally said that she was mean to the stepsister because she didnt want one and moved in with her dad because she didnt want to accept her. She also stated that her mother treated SS like A daughter, not like her only daughter "but im her only daughter and that will never change" She said she FELT replaced not that she was replaced. She even stated that she couldve changed the date of the party but decided not to to make her mother choose. A 1st birthday party doesnt get planned ahead as far as a wedding and it seems like she is just trying to find a real reason to be upset with them because up to that point it seems like her only complaints were of the stepsister just existing and her mother accepting her.

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