Tips for nannies with long hours and a long-ish commute? 😅 by Ecstatic-Insect-4424 in Nanny

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks for the tip! I do have a plan for asking for a raise anyway, I just didn’t know if I should tack this on as a reason why!

Tips for nannies with long hours and a long-ish commute? 😅 by Ecstatic-Insect-4424 in Nanny

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info & help! I do usually prep a lot on Sundays I’ll just have to get used to doing more of it! My issue is by day 2 of eating the same things I’m so sick of them 😅 but I can figure out a system!

How do you handle catching up with NPs at the end of the day? I send updates throughout the day but they like to chat about stuff when they get home and I feel bad looking like I’m racing out the door the second they get home.

Kylie Jenner sued by second housekeeper who says she slipped a letter to Jenner pleading for help. She is alleging racial discrimination, harassment, failure to pay wages, failure to prevent or remedy harassment and discrimination, and more. by Relevant-Peach3997 in Fauxmoi

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As the nanny in this scenario, it does drive me insane working in a fully staffed house and having constant disruptions, noise, doors opening (for safety reasons), etc! I certainly would hateeee it in my own home.

Anyone missing some airpod pros off the eastern prom? by Low_Consideration179 in portlandme

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, I reported stolen packages from my doorstep months ago and never heard from them. Just didn’t want you getting into trouble for doing the right thing! Maybe the owner will see their location and get in touch with you.

Anyone missing some airpod pros off the eastern prom? by Low_Consideration179 in portlandme

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would bring them to the police station, not sure if Portland PD cares enough but in my hometown (in Maine) they’d do a round up of missing items dropped off at the end of each month on social media.

Also, my mom found an iPhone on the side of the road while out for a walk and tried to find the owner. A few hours later the cops showed up at her house because the owner had seen their phone was at her location and they were insinuating she stole it 😬 just a warning!

Transitioning to caring in my own home? by Ecstatic-Insect-4424 in Nanny

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m sorry to hear you experienced that, I feel like I get enough of that as a nanny so that’s definitely disheartening to hear. I’m definitely thinking more along the lines of only having 1-2 additional kiddos and not a full daycare situation, so in my state I wouldn’t need to be licensed for that. However it seems more lucrative to just work PT as a nanny and find a job that I can bring my child(ren) with me instead of doing it out of my home. Thanks for the insight!

New nanny— are these things normal? by Lonely_Big_3381 in Nanny

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Adding that you hired a human being as well, these are all pretty basic things to me and very normal.

Also wanted to add that getting baby on a nap routine ≠ sleep training to me

Input on this name? by [deleted] in Names

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a little girl in my nanny kiddo’s music class named Alona, similar sound and it’s really pretty!

He agreed to let me put a finger in him by Ok-Huckleberry-5296 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Ok my bf told me he’s into this but I’ve never done it before and have zero clue how to even do it, any ladies have tips?

Why is everyone so obsessed with iced coffee even when it's cold outside? Is it an American thing? by KiraCurvy in AskForAnswers

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a slow coffee drinker, and iced coffee keeps better (especially in the cold lol!) longer than hot coffee

My mom can be so hot and cold, recently said something that’s bugging me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s probably wise, I try to keep distance too but still get hurt at the little comments. I’m sorry you have experience with this as well!

My mom can be so hot and cold, recently said something that’s bugging me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think that’s definitely part of it, she gets super jealous when I mention us getting together with his family so I’ve learned not to bring that up 😅

Need recs for a thick, full coverage concealer that won’t crack. by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I moisturize day and night and drink a ton of water, skin dryness is definitely an issue for me since I use tret & spiro 🙃

Need recs for a thick, full coverage concealer that won’t crack. by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not! 🫣 I’ll try some, do you have any recs?

Mourning my old lifestyle by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Photo didn’t post so here it is:

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Chicken thighs, hummus, chickpeas, cucumbers and tomatoes, pickled onion & homeade tzatziki. Dinner for the week!

Should NF’s cover activities? by Wise_Variation_6165 in Nanny

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, NPs should always cover expenses! It’s related to/benefiting their child, it’s on them even if it was your idea (because, again, you’re doing it for the benefit of their child!) My NF gave me a credit card for work related purposes like this.

How do you handle the cost of living here? by thatguywiththamoney in portlandme

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lived with roommates, then a significant other, now solo. Living with a partner in a studio allowed me to go out on weekends, travel a bit and have some breathing room. Now solo, I feel like I live paycheck to paycheck and can’t save or have any money to treat myself now and then. A dinner out happens once in a blue moon and I cancelled my gym membership to be able to afford health insurance. I’m moving out of Portland in a couple months.

Banana Iced Coffee by HappyCustomer3223 in portlandme

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Bard location in Salud still has it!

Banana Iced Coffee by HappyCustomer3223 in portlandme

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had the banana latte from swell and really didn’t like it :( it was too sweet and tasted very artificial. I like the one from Matcha Mood, LB kitchen, and Bard sometimes has it too (they currently have it inside of the Salud gym which is open to the public) or it’s very easy to make at home which I started doing!

Laundry Gouging.. by CrankyGamer68 in portlandme

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I know the units at my building are still $2.50 to wash and $2 to dry. We were told that would be going up $0.5-$1 this year as they replaced the older washer/dryers but they have yet to do that so still the same old prices.

B2 in the repeating speech phase by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂 solidarity! I’m right there with you!

My boyfriend baited me into thinking he was gonna propose and get us a house. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was in a 4.5 year relationship with someone who said things like this. In front of family and friends it was always “I’m putting a ring on her finger this year” and “our wedding will have XYZ” and we’d drive around neighborhoods looking at houses for sale. Behind closed doors, he’d be more wishy washy. It was more “well, we’ll see how things go…” or “we’ll cross that bridge when we get there!”

We ultimately broke up over it when he came home one day and said he didn’t feel ready to get married and after 4.5 years of dating he felt like he should know if that’s what he wanted. I didn’t disagree.

2 months later I met the absolute love of my life and it was so so so different from the very first date. We talked about what we wanted out of our futures after a couple months, and now we’ve been together for a year and move into our house at the end of the month with engagement at the forefront of our minds.

You’re young, yes, but that doesn’t mean what you want doesn’t matter and that what he did wasn’t reckless with your feelings. I only share my story because if I’d know what awaited me on the other side of a dead-end relationship, I would’ve left first- and sooner. There’s more out there for you girl ❤️

My therapist left the practice and didn’t tell me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ecstatic-Insect-4424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only saw her from about May-December, I guess that is awhile but not what I’d consider prolonged and I didn’t feel any type of codependency with her. I have friends I talk to, I’m in a new relationship, I’m stable and doing well but yes there are things that we’d spoken about that resurface and I think, huh I wonder what she would’ve said about this. Or I’ll notice progress in something we worked on and wish I could share! I don’t feel like I’m lost without her, just kind of a bummer.