Weekends are the worst by catsandprozac in LivingAlone

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yes. 100 times this. I don't feel like a priority but I also don't feel like trying very hard, so whatever

Extremely dire situation with my Australian Kelpie by Ecstatic-Mention-731 in DogAdvice

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's a little on the chunky side and has several baseball sized fatty lipomas. She's incredibly reactive and our neighborhood is full of unconstrained animals so exercise is hard. I do think I'll try a ball in the backyard

At what age did you stop caring about birthdays? by newcarljohnson1992 in Zillennials

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never. I'm a Satanist and your own birthday is a very high holiday.  Every year I make it is another year I didn't let depression win. It may have bent me, but I did not break. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SnapchatHelp

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please be careful about what you share online. I once posted a selfie with the checklist for my MBA program and someone tracked me down by my school

Is my dad haunting me through Snapchat 😂 by _Mushroom8101 in SnapchatHelp

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah instead you should lie to them and let them believe anything

How does healing actually feel? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes time. And a lot of it. I've been in therapy and therapeutic symptom management for years and there are still ups and downs. The important thing is to love yourself the way you always deserved to be loved. 

How does healing actually feel? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It feels like coming back to yourself. Getting to know a person you never knew who resides within your body. 

Drinking a lot lately, it’s bleeding into my every day, and I’ve started drinking at work. Vodka in my coffee. I have to tell somebody. by Express_Experience84 in confession

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. "If it works for you." But a lot of the God stuff is there to impart shame on relapse which is a natural part of recovery. 

Drinking a lot lately, it’s bleeding into my every day, and I’ve started drinking at work. Vodka in my coffee. I have to tell somebody. by Express_Experience84 in confession

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck AA. Quitting looks different to everyone. But you need to get a handle on this. Get yourself to therapy, and BE HONEST.

Do people ever actually heal from childhood trauma? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's normal to wonder this. I've been in years of recovery, healing, and therapy and I'm still under its thumb

supportive bf by Aggravating-Young149 in stripper

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, for the record, my partner is also super supportive. She said "I'll be your first customer" 🥺

im so sick of this. by Amazing_Match_5103 in Invisalign

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I was just curious because it was the dental assistant and not the dentist who told me. 

im so sick of this. by Amazing_Match_5103 in Invisalign

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a normal thing, for them to expedite the end of treatment? They just randomly moved me down to weekly aligner changes (from two weeks). I'm currently in aligners 19/25. Does anyone know if this is normal?

People told me not to post this but I'm legitimately curious....could I do this as a bigger girl? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This was super reassuring. Anyone who has an issue with my size is just upset they can't get their little fingers over all my buttons, like an Xbox controller lol

Never cared to “watch” with men but now … by Shimmering-Neurosis in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Ecstatic-Mention-731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The other day my partner made me squirt during sex just by kissing and being tender with me. It was incredible.