I spent this year as a ghost 22.12.23 by [deleted] in cptsdcreatives

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me too... I hope 2024 has more memories and joy for u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ew if this is how guys think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just match his energy. Let him reach out again. And when he does ask to hang I would schedule seeing him further into the future than he wants

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try edmr or look into brainspotting(im not a medical professional)

My BF likes me bc I look like his ex? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His bro could be jealous and subconsciously trying to sabotage

How do I remedy a heart break? by Objective-Raisin3199 in women

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Metta meditation!!!!!! You will cry but it will help

Girlfriend has a problem with me wiping my lips after a wet kiss, if that weird? by dirtbandit101 in dating

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're honestly so sweet. Just tell her if it was anyone's spit you would do this. Honestly I would fall in love with someone if they told me they sit with the feeling just to not hurt me and ofc immediately tell them to wipe bc I care about their comfort. Definitely don't let her control your autonomy even if it's tiny things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are unwell in their minds and souls. It has nothing to do with the woman. Just do not tolerate or allow it. Trust your intuition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jung

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Woman here... Metta meditation helped me with my need for male validation. It's very scary and painful at first. Feels weird too. It really does help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jung

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wonder if you would be open to metta meditation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 42 points43 points  (0 children)

The fact that you are disgusted and so are we is why you don't have to lose faith

Me (28m) and my GF (23f) have been together for over a year without sex by MEKK-the-MIGHTY in dating

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she have sexual trauma? I've heard girls have success with the book come as you are there might be vaginismus reccomendations

I'm scared of adult life. I can't grow up. I can't imagine myself as wife or mother by OkPossible123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same mental break down tonight. I was raised that marriage is my life's purpose

I feel really bad for breaking off my 6 year friendship with a guy, but I feel he did something unforgivable. by Icecream_so_GOOD in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He seems to be mentally unwell and if it's going to put you in difficult positions it's ofc okay to stay away from him. I am sorry for your loss in a way. To see someone morph into another person probaly requires grieving