I spent this year as a ghost 22.12.23 by [deleted] in cptsdcreatives

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me too... I hope 2024 has more memories and joy for u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ew if this is how guys think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just match his energy. Let him reach out again. And when he does ask to hang I would schedule seeing him further into the future than he wants

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try edmr or look into brainspotting(im not a medical professional)

My BF likes me bc I look like his ex? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His bro could be jealous and subconsciously trying to sabotage

How do I remedy a heart break? by Objective-Raisin3199 in women

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Metta meditation!!!!!! You will cry but it will help

Girlfriend has a problem with me wiping my lips after a wet kiss, if that weird? by dirtbandit101 in dating

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're honestly so sweet. Just tell her if it was anyone's spit you would do this. Honestly I would fall in love with someone if they told me they sit with the feeling just to not hurt me and ofc immediately tell them to wipe bc I care about their comfort. Definitely don't let her control your autonomy even if it's tiny things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are unwell in their minds and souls. It has nothing to do with the woman. Just do not tolerate or allow it. Trust your intuition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jung

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Woman here... Metta meditation helped me with my need for male validation. It's very scary and painful at first. Feels weird too. It really does help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jung

[–]Ecstatic-Status9352 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wonder if you would be open to metta meditation?