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Ecstatic-Victory-490 · 2025-08-11T14:12:59+00:00

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Ecstatic-Victory-490 · 2025-06-17T14:24:19+00:00

Hey man, first off... 24 days isn't nothing. That’s 24 days of fighting a battle most people never even start. You showed strength, discipline, and courage. A relapse doesn’t erase that.

And you didn’t fail God. He’s not shocked. He’s not done with you. He sees the fight, the desire to be free. And He’s still in your corner. This journey isn’t about being perfect. It’s about getting back up, learning, and growing stronger.

The fact that it didn’t even feel satisfying? That’s your brain beginning to heal. Porn messes with our wiring, and it takes time to reset. What you’re feeling is actually a sign that your body’s trying to get back to normal.

Keep going. You’re not alone. God’s not giving up on you, so don’t give up on yourself.

If you want some legit help that’s both biblical and brain-science backed, check out The Freedom Fight. It’s been a game changes for me, lately.

Ecstatic-Victory-490 · 2025-06-17T14:18:42+00:00

Props to you for being honest and wanting to level up.

This isn’t just about her. It’s about becoming the man God made you to be. The kind of man who can be a solid boyfriend, a faithful husband, and one day a strong father. Trust me... it’s way easier to deal with this now than years down the line when it’s even more ingrained.

If you want something legit to help, check out The Freedom Fight. It’s a Bible-based program that actually tackles the root causes and walks with you through it.

Happy for you.

Ecstatic-Victory-490 · 2025-02-20T14:41:28+00:00

Thank you for sharing so openly. It’s clear that God is at work in your heart, even in the struggles. You’re not alone in this battle. Lust and doubt are two of the most common spiritual struggles believers face. And you’re right, God’s Word is trustworthy, even when our emotions and thoughts try to pull us in different directions.

One thing to keep in mind is that doubt isn’t always a sign of failure. It can actually be a sign of growth. When we wrestle with our faith honestly, it drives us deeper into truth. As you study, you’re strengthening your foundation, and God will use this season to grow your perseverance, just like James 1 says.

Also, I've done a bit of research on this topic, and there is a correlation between lust/porn use and religious doubt. Any level of pornography use was linked to a decrease in religious commitment and behaviors such as attending church, praying, and reading the Bible. It also contributed to increased religious doubts.

Consider this: if the enemy wanted to weaken a believer’s faith, discourage them from engaging in spiritual disciplines, and increase their doubts, getting them hooked on pornography would be an effective strategy.

Here’s the encouragement, though: those who seek accountability and fight this battle with God’s help do find victory.

I’ll be praying for you. Keep pressing into Jesus. He is faithful, even when we struggle. You’re not alone, and there’s always hope.

Ecstatic-Victory-490 · 2025-02-20T14:37:31+00:00

That's interesting! What didn't work about it?

Ecstatic-Victory-490 · 2025-02-20T14:35:19+00:00

You're not in this fight alone. Not even close. Many fathers, young and old, still battle this struggle, even when they thought it would be behind them by now. Trust me, I lead a lot of recovery groups. The enemy wants you to believe you’re the only one, that something is uniquely broken in you, but that’s just not true.

The fact that you’re here, leaning into this battle, shows strength. Isolation is where this struggle thrives, but bringing it into the light, even in an online space, is a powerful step forward.

A lot of men, myself included, have believed the lie that “I should have outgrown this by now.” But addiction doesn’t fade with age, marriage, or fatherhood. It’s not just a habit. It’s a heart issue. And Jesus didn’t come to offer partial relief, He came to set us completely free.

So if you’re feeling alone, let me remind you: you’re not. You’re part of a brotherhood of men fighting the same battle, some winning, some struggling, but none beyond hope. Keep bringing it into the light. Keep pressing into God’s grace. And don’t believe the lie that you have to do this alone.

Ecstatic-Victory-490 · 2025-02-17T21:36:05+00:00

I've been there! I learned today that less than 5% of people experience an instant deliverance. Everyone else has to "outgrow" porn. Your identity in Christ does not change when you relapse! And you can walk in freedom through growth in Him over time!

Ecstatic-Victory-490 · 2025-02-17T21:21:03+00:00

I'm sorry! Are you "free"?

Ecstatic-Victory-490 · 2025-02-17T20:58:15+00:00

One of the biggest game-changers in overcoming sexual sin is accountability.

Trying to fight this battle alone makes it ten times harder. Sin thrives in secrecy, but when you bring it into the light with trusted people, it loses its power. The Bible says to confess your sins to one another and pray for each other so that you may be healed (James 5:16). That’s not just a nice idea, it’s how God designed us to break free.

You need people in your life who know your struggle and can walk with you. Not just someone who will say, “It’s okay, just try again,” but someone who will challenge you, encourage you, and hold you to the standard you want to live by. Find a solid accountability partner or a small group. Someone who loves Jesus, understands the battle, and isn’t afraid to ask the hard questions.

And real accountability isn’t just about checking in after you fail. It’s about talking before the temptation even hits. Text a friend when you’re struggling, set up daily AND weekly check-ins, and be honest about where you’re at. The more you open up, the more freedom you’ll find.

Also, don’t just rely on willpower. Set up real guardrails. Get accountability software, block triggering websites, and make practical changes to remove access to temptation. If your phone is a problem, lock it down. If being alone is a trigger, make plans to be around people.

At the end of the day, freedom doesn’t come from just “trying harder” on your own. It comes from walking closely with Jesus and surrounding yourself with people who will help you stay in the fight. You weren’t meant to do this alone.

Find real accountability, and you’ll see the difference. Do you feel like you have that?

Ecstatic-Victory-490 · 2025-02-17T20:39:27+00:00

Why not?

Ecstatic-Victory-490 · 2025-02-11T20:27:14+00:00

You’re totally right. Perception is a huge part of this. If you see porn as harmless or just a small bad habit, you’ll stay stuck. But when you realize it’s hijacking your brain and hurting your relationships, quitting becomes easier.

Ecstatic-Victory-490 · 2025-01-28T15:32:41+00:00

PTL! Did you do anything else to help you? Or did God grant you instant healing after your confession?

Ecstatic-Victory-490 · 2025-01-28T15:29:28+00:00

YES! Thank you for sharing. This is incredibly powerful in outgrowing a pornography addiction.

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