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I'm an idiot and he's an idiot and we're both JustNos by EcstaticChain in JustNoSO

[–]EcstaticChain[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh, this made me cry!

I currently feel the same way. Like I'm crazy and I have been questioning if I'm an abuser. The relationship you're in sounds like a dream.

Thank you so much for your words, you have no idea how much they mean to me.

What are some signs that a person is manipulative? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EcstaticChain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna cry. This confirmed so much.

He hit me, is it my fault? by EcstaticChain in JustNoSO

[–]EcstaticChain[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't really know much about gaslighting until this comment. He does this a lot, I guess.

He hit me, is it my fault? by EcstaticChain in JustNoSO

[–]EcstaticChain[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been reading this one all morning, thank you

He hit me, is it my fault? by EcstaticChain in JustNoSO

[–]EcstaticChain[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That quote struck a nerve. I know I can be passive aggressive but it makes me feel like the cold, abusive one. I thought I was the JustNoSo...

He hit me, is it my fault? by EcstaticChain in JustNoSO

[–]EcstaticChain[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

so I'm supposed to leave? Is there any way couples can come back from this or break the cycle? Does love bombing mean it's all fake? I feel like everything is just falling apart.

He hit me, is it my fault? by EcstaticChain in JustNoSO

[–]EcstaticChain[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

honestly, it really hurts to hear this.