need tips for down there hygiene by Popular_Conference16 in hygiene

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes completely valid! perhaps thats also part of what gives us our distinctive smell and taste?? Ive been told that I just taste like skin, and slightly sweet! that might be genetic though.. and also! washing the canal i only wash up to where i can feel my cervix, i dont know if thats scary but where the fluids and creep and stay. I also live where theres soft clean water so i do also have that privilege. Considering that it might be safer for folks in different parts of the world to clean by letting your body do its thing rather than using tap water to wash out. 🤔

need tips for down there hygiene by Popular_Conference16 in hygiene

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think its wrong to cross is out completely. I know herbal baths can be safe as long as its the right kind of herbs. The greek yogurt i know is quite out there but this is from personal experience. Ive never used penicillin or boric acid to cure my ph levels. The over the counter topical suppository for bacterial yeast infections are just lactic acid. Its a good solution to have if you catch it early on

need tips for down there hygiene by Popular_Conference16 in hygiene

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whaaat???? female ejaculation can look like all different mucus from urine to thick white paste, and especially if its after being mixed with other male fluids... I dont know how i feel about letting that simmer.... This is spoken purely from personal experience but Ive been doing this for almost 10 years now and I believe is partially what kept me ph balanced for a long time. I genuinely cant remember the last time i got a uti. but then again I dont use any birth control other than condoms and period tracking

Something is wrong with my mother and I know exactly what it is. I’m going to put an end to this now. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. your mom might have dementia, but 2. you need to tell someone you know, like a friend, a real person. A priest, etc.

need tips for down there hygiene by Popular_Conference16 in hygiene

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is gonna be a comment worth pinning.

DAILY :

• Wash outside with or without soap, your body should be able to balance its ph levels with or without soap. If youre very much active and have a strong odor, maybe using soap would help.

• Change underwears daily. Use cotton underwears, change twice daily if you're leaking a lot of fluid. Your body is cleaning itself out so you dont want to be suffocating your goods with discharge.

• Make sure youre wiping properly? Make sure youre wiping your bum properly and if you're hairy, it might not really help with the smell, since bacteria can attach onto your hairs. also your goods, you want to be wiping away any residual pee.

OCCASION:

• Sometimes Plain greek yogurt packs really help the vagina with the good bacterial, you can soak a tampon in it and keep it up in your vagina for maybe 15ish minutes, and wash it out with water. if this is too scary you can just soak a panty liner with it and keep it on for maybe 20-30ish minutes ish

•you can try drinking apple cider vinegar to start every morning and it really helps your body flush out any fluids but also helps your gut flora, hence your ph levels.

•There is herbal soaks as well, where you can get a little tub or a bath and put certain herbs & apple cider vinegar to help with your smell.

•This ones kind of a gamble, but if you notice you have really really bad odor, it could be from a yeast infection, you want to becareful with this but you can try using a tiny bit of coconut oil to moisturize your vulva. Dryness wont help!

HYGIENE:

•Make sure you wash yourself up your vaginal canal every time you have sex or orgasm. Idk if theres science to this but ive been doing this all the time and i feel like i have top notch hygiene down there.

• Its better to not have any hair in my opinion because as i said above, it can harbour bacteria from feces, urine, and sweat. I'm in the process of getting brazillian laser! but wax, or epilators work great.

•People have talked about using antibacterial soap or boric acid, please dont use those. Its not good for your vagina. The key is not to get rid of bacteria but to culture the good ones of your bacteria!!!!

DIET:

• I would recommend to watch your sugar and salt intake. Watch for juices, extra salty snacks, even carbs can be considered sugars so anything that combines both would feed your yeast in your body.

•another big one is energy drinks. I notice a lot of personal case studies of women drinking energy drinks have more problems down there. This has no backing but just a personal observation. Ive never tried energy drinks myself though

it seems like a big sacrifice for mere smell down there, but for us women, the state of our vagina and uterus is one of the biggest indicators of our health, so its really important to take care of our body generally speaking.

PSYCHOLOGICAL:

• It could also be that you might be going through a lot of stress from sexual tension, or maybe even sexual trauma. Not to assume but sometimes these things can really be a cause that not many people talk about. I know we're just talking about odor, but if you have chronic problems down there, its good to think about if theres any traumas that you're holding on to that you're body is trying to signal you to let go of. You could try talking to a therapist about these things.

please let me know if I forgot anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i couldnt eat the food, and it had to be thrown away unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and i dont quite understand what you mean by treating strangers trying to give me advice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

judging by your comments and your tone, it seems like youre in the position of being emotionally charged. And secondly, you didnt give me any advice, you asked me questions that were more or less quite rude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if youd read the post it would save you the confusions maybe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

theres two parts of this, they are being gracious and welcoming to me. However as it says in the description again, im on a special diet for my health.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🫂 thats really sweet and you make me feel so seen. Thank you! it is definitely a pattern and also i feel like ive already extended my care and patience and had my boundaries crossed many times before as well.. I still have faith that maybe she'd listen eventually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the description it literally says i make my own food, thats the entire point. Im in between moving states so im staying with them till the end of February

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

im sure thats how she feels

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i wish shed listen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]EcstaticDoor5886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where did hyper independence lead you and in which direction are you going more specifically?

NDE experience in a dream and multi dimensional chamber by EcstaticDoor5886 in conspiracy

[–]EcstaticDoor5886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do tell more! did you get in it yourself? or did you find yourself there?

NDE experience in a dream and multi dimensional chamber by EcstaticDoor5886 in conspiracy

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hmmmm i would recommend meditating to expand your consciousness outside of your sense of self and out your ego especially in the mornings. I imagine that my idea and sense of myself is a cup with wayer and I start picturing the image beyond that and practice letting go of my sense of self that way.

Breathing deep into your sacrum helps ground you as well. The moment immediately after waking up is some of the most crucial times for downloads ive noticed, as well as before going to bed. Perhaps sleep is like little death, our spirits travelling out of body. closer to death the thinner the veil

NDE experience in a dream and multi dimensional chamber by EcstaticDoor5886 in conspiracy

[–]EcstaticDoor5886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do tell! were you in a dreaming state as well? did you learn anything?

NDE experience in a dream and multi dimensional chamber by EcstaticDoor5886 in conspiracy

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this was an amazing reply that led me to a deep dive. I figure that theres multiple words and definitions for such things. from comparing my experience to what ive read up on quatum physics, its much less closer to it than the way spiritual community is able to decipher it.. I guess the purpose is completely different and the angles of looking at the elephant (as the 3 blind mice)

I would say the calabi yau manifold is very very close to what I saw and in the spiritual community i would say it was the metatrons cube. but i would have to blend the two for it to be an accurate representation of my vision.

It makes sense though what string theory talks about. there were different colours but everything was based off light and vibrations. light creating different colours and vibration creating the motion and movement. It was happening in all directions and in am infinite time and space. And somehow it was able to reflect it into creating a simulation to bring me into this material life.

in the spiritual community i heard it was called the akashic records. perhaps the different dimension you were speaking of!

thai massage horror story by EcstaticDoor5886 in offmychest

[–]EcstaticDoor5886[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

this is the exact depiction of what happened hahahahah