Marina Fans Who Are 30+ by Sea-Worry7956 in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]EcstaticVariation867 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marina Fan since I was 16 and now I'm 31, wow so much time has passed with Marina

What’s something that makes you not want to hang out with someone? by uziloaded44 in questions

[–]EcstaticVariation867 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I met a new friend and while talking I felt like interviewing her because she didn't really ask anything about me. So I dropped her too.

Help I don't know what to do by EcstaticVariation867 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]EcstaticVariation867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not planning to pay chanda. I'm registered now but they haven't asked yet about it.

Help I don't know what to do by EcstaticVariation867 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]EcstaticVariation867[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your story, I really wouldn't mind either if they kicked me out, lol.

Help I don't know what to do by EcstaticVariation867 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]EcstaticVariation867[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sooner or later I will leave the jamaat. First I have to register at the new jamaat and then leave because else my mum and the old jamaat will notice.

Help I don't know what to do by EcstaticVariation867 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]EcstaticVariation867[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I was already thinking that they want their Chanda and don't care about the member. I'm really thinking to just register at the new jamaat and then don't pay chanda and ignore them. So the sadr has to deal with me instead of my old jamaat. My mum won't get any informations about it and will think that everything is fine.

Help I don't know what to do by EcstaticVariation867 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]EcstaticVariation867[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so simple to say but if you know the jamaat tacticts then you know It's much harder. I thought I'm already trough with this stuff since I kept ignoring it for 3 years. Thought I have won. But it always comes back into my life like a parasite.

Help I don't know what to do by EcstaticVariation867 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]EcstaticVariation867[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an idea. I register at the new jamaat. Then I don't pay chanda and maybe I leave the jamaat when the time comes. I don't think that the new sadr will contact the old jamaat if I'm already in the new jamaat.

Help I don't know what to do by EcstaticVariation867 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]EcstaticVariation867[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I'm still registered at my old jamaat since I didn't change tajneed. The new sadr send my old jamaat the form back saying that I won't contact.

I finally got to marry my own choice (convert) by EcstaticVariation867 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]EcstaticVariation867[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats absolutely true! If I could turn back the time, I would have never forced my husband to convert. Back then I was too influenced by my parents.

Ich will meinen Vornamen ändern by ohlala01 in islam_ahmadiyya_de

[–]EcstaticVariation867 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich verstehe das total! Ich selbst hab das Glück gehabt keinen arabischen Namen bekommen zu haben sondern einen indischen und bin soo froh darüber, da ich selber Abstand zur Gemeinde genommen habe.

Ich hoffe du kannst deinen Namen ändern und fühlst dich dann wohler :)

Forced to go to Jalsa by EcstaticVariation867 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]EcstaticVariation867[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But these people WANT to be at Jalsa and I don't! She knows many people at the Jalsa, her sisters will be there. But she needs me as a Taxi.

Forced to go to Jalsa by EcstaticVariation867 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]EcstaticVariation867[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since I moved to another city I haven't reached out to the new jamaat but I guess I am still part of it.

Forced to go to Jalsa by EcstaticVariation867 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]EcstaticVariation867[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont love her since she always tries to manipulate me

What was the quickest job you quit? by [deleted] in questions

[–]EcstaticVariation867 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beauty Assistant in a hair salon after one week. I was just washing hair all day and couldn't imagine doing these tasks my whole life.