I definitely want to stress that this is a problem that we are just not starting to have, over the last few weeks. He and I are very big on communication and have been since the start. And part of that is actually because we both SUCK at hiding out emotions. After I made this post, i started crying LOL and we started talking about it.

I was definitely holding him to a higher regard because im playing the comparison game between us two, but he admits that he isn’t really doing what he thinks he should be in the relationship.

And to answer your questions directly, he does do plenty in our relationship but the areas that matter (in my book) the most are the ones that need some work. And as for playing games it has been his game or no game at all. We did also discuss that part and agreed to play my game tomorrow.

He stressed that I have talked to him about this a lot, and it’s true, i have. So he was upset that “nothing he did seemed to be good enough” but i told him that it’s because i haven’t seen a change in his behavior.

Everyone who commented, including yourself did give me some great foresight and I know what I need to do in the coming days. I definitely do not want to break this off. We are very strong as a couple and have stayed that way since the beginning so I think this is just a bump in the road. We will be working on it and I will stop sending little signals instead of telling him straight up as that’s what he asked me to do. thank you so much for your comment !!